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writes:Help! Im in love with my best friend who i havent even spoke to in like a year maybe 2 but i think about him all the time. Its affecting my relationship with my boyfriend, who ive kinda fallen out of love with.Please what should i do?Im so confused at the moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): I was in the same position you are now but i fell in love with my ex boufriend to whom I haven't spoken in 3 years. Everything reminded me of him and that's why I kept thinking of him. But what I did was simple I tried so think about what made me happy about my ex and about my boyfriend now, what they did to make me the most happiest.
My ex cheated on me a lot but i never was unhappy with him, my boyfriend now i know he will never cheat on me but i am unhappy most of the time. My advise to u is go with what makes you the happiest because in the future who would you be the happiest with? That is truely the most mportant thing your happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
Oh my heart goes out to you, You have probably missed the conection between you and your best friend so much as know one knows us like our best mate eh!!!If you have fallen out of love with your b/f and its not just because you are missing your mate then I feel you should be honest with him love I no thats not easy but its best to be open and honest. Have you had any kind of feedback from your best mate that he may feel the same, As if he does not then remember you will be throwing away a relationship, so make sure hunny your feelings are true have a deep think about all of this as you dont want to make any huge decitions on a whim and be left with regrets message me if you need a chin wag ok YOU TAKE CARE HUNNY LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): Hi there. You're still young. Explore whatever could be there with your friend. Keep in mind that if the feelings are not reciprocated that this might effect your friendship. But it's important that you explore this before you build a life with someone else because you'll always be left wondering and things will be harder after you've been building a relationship with someone only to realize that you should've been with the other guy. Good luck.
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