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Confused as to whether these guys like me.

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Question - (17 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *racyPrinces writes:

Hey, I need help.

I like this guy I’ve liked him for 4 years and I don’t think he even knows, I aint sure if he likes me he does stare at me in lessons and I look away because i'm trying to forget him but then i realy really like him and on the way to school he looks at me and talks to his mate, i do look at him i can't resist myself but I try my best ignoring him.

1 year ago I tried telling him but he just ignored me, I don’t get were I stand with him 1 minute he’s literally staring at me next he’s blanking me, and then the next he’s talking to me, I really like him, and loads of other girls in my class do 2,but they all lie to him when on the other hand i tell him everything someone says about him, he even had a fling with my mate but then pretended nothing happened, and I never said nothing, but was jealous and really hurt I think his class mates even know.

I like him but he don’t do anything to make it clear to me,but i still think he likes me, I want to forget him but I am finding it hard because I keep seeing him every were I go, and even in my dreams. I am confused weather he likes me or not or is it just him being normal towards me or is he playing me. And i really want to be with him. Please help if u can don’t matter if u can’t.

There this other guy he lives on my road every time I get out he always looking at me and smiles and it freaks me out, because we don’t get on and I really hate him. I have even made it clear to him that I aint interested and I don’t like him at all. How do I stop him looking at me?

Then there’s this other person a guy who I know I go down his house once every 2 weeks, when we first met he kept trying to impress me that’s what I think he kept on showing me things and saying come sit next to me all the time, and then he asked for my msn email address I was going to give it to him but as a mate and then his smaller brother say’s to me not to give my email address I asked why he said he acts dirty with girls meaning he flirts with them, and I never gave my email address but he kept asking for it, what does that mean, does he like me or is he just messing about. And now when I see him he just acts weird, not normal. Does he like me or not? What’s maybe is wrong with him that he is acting different towards me now?

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A female reader, TracyPrinces United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2007):

TracyPrinces is verified as being by the original poster of the question

TracyPrinces agony auntthanks 4 helping its great help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007):

Young guys check out girls their age - it's just one of those things so don't panic if someone stares/smiles. The guy in your class you like sounds like a wee bit of a player - an it's a wee bit harsh of your mate to have a fling with him if she knew how long you'd liked him for -shame on her. If he is that great a guy and you still like him maybe get your friends to ask if he fancies anyone right now/ what he thinks of you if you don't want to ask yourself? If they don't indicate he does then maybe it's time to move on if he ignored you last year when you tried to talk about. I know you like him a lot right now but eventually you'll find someone who you like more and who likes you back :)

I think the guy in your street is just being friendly - don't worry just smile back and walk past. Just because your being nice to someone doesn't mean your saying that you fancy them so don't think you'd be implying that :)

I'm not sure why you're going to this 3rd guys house every two weeks or if that has some effect on your problem? ..but in general it sounds like he just likes you.(I'm assuming he's about your age) Do you want him to? If you do maybe you should give him your msn? Only if he's nice though- im slightly concerened about the whole "talking dirty" thing - but if he does mean "flirting" - every one is a little flirty when they are chatting to someone they like. He's probably only acting a little strange because he like's you, asked you for your email address and you knocked him back.

Overall, your a nice girl - guys will like you - you have nothing to worry about :) Don't do anything you don't want to do and don't do anything to "make" anyone like you - they'll like you for you xxx Good Luck xxx

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A female reader, TracyPrinces United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2007):

TracyPrinces is verified as being by the original poster of the question

TracyPrinces agony auntsum1 answer man i reli need help plz

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