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*abibi123
writes:hi!4 years now i had realationship with a married man.we always have good sex good realation but her wife find out.but even if his wife knows about this.we still together.so many things happend so many fight but yet we have each other.is he really loves me? why is it that if we dont have sex afeter four days i felt that his ignorring me or he has onther one.if i ask him he said that he has alot of problem in the office.i felt like he is laying to me.is it good that everytime you have to ask him where are or where did you go.if i ask him if his still care for me or loves me he said yes,why is it that i always felt that he change.i really love him..should i not ask all this quastion for him everytime.everytime we had fight he always hug me.is he loves me?
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reader, sweetiebabes +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Sis, you wouldn't be asking questions here in DC if you feel he loves you? Why do you have to stay in the relationship if you have the doubts?
I feel he is giving you the emotional satisfaction to keep you but doesn't really love you. You will still be his second best. Sis, if you can't deal with the facts that you're just one of the women on the sides...get out now before you will go crazy and hurt yourself badly. One member in DC told me once, THERE ARE RULES THAT GOVERN ON THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP...NO COMMITMENTS, NO EXPECTATIONS. Can you deal with this? If not, STOP NOW.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 If it has been 4 years then yes, most likely he does love you.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 In Asian cultures, a man may keep 2 or 3 mistresses or unofficial wives.
He probably loves you but you are only the second best unless you legally become his second wife.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 May 2010):
No, not at all. He's just using you for sex. He has problems with his marriage, and rather than deal with them, he just comes to you and uses you. He's a married man, and you shouldn't be with him at all. If he loved you, he would have left her before having an affair. He didn't. He's using you and you need to end it now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): No. He doesn't love you. He's using you for sex. And if you were his wife, he'd be cheating on you too. And it's likely that he does have another mistress--after all, he's a liar and a cheater.
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