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writes: I have been with my bf for 5 years, we have a 2 yr old son together and everything seemed so right. For the past 6 mths hes been distant. Almost like he doesnt care anymore. He works all the time, doesnt seem to mind being away from me. I just recently found out hes been talking to a co worker. Started as friends, he claims thats all it is today. But I found out she calls him and he calls her from his parents house after he leaves work. Before coming home to me. I've found him at her friends house. He says they just "hang out". He's just always somewhere she seems to be. What should I do? Please tell me. I love him so much and I need some help!!
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Lisa, writes (4 March 2005): I have been in your situation before, my dear. It is not a pleasant one and I know you love him very much. I would ask you to confront him about this co worker and also ask his parents to be honest with you about his telephone calls to her. Honesty is paramount. If it is true that he is seeing this person and leading a double life, point out what he is missing out on and use your son in the conversation. At the end of the day, if he is cheating on you, its really both of you. If he admits this, seek a relationship counsellor if he is willing. But above all, don't keep punishing your self. As hard as it is, you can't go through life mentally torturing yourself. Make a new start for yourself. I did.
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