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writes:can a man fall in love with two women,cause there is a man who says that he's got two girlfriends,he love's them both,but he says he feels like he is in heaven when he is around the new girl.is it possible 2 love two women?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 No way. If he is not comitted to you then he is just lustful. Theres a big difference between lust and love.
He is probably in love with himself more.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 No. If he says he loves 2 women, he's basically just in love with himrself. When you love somebody, you understand that you may have to give up the gratification of personal selfish impulses and wishes , for the harmony and balance of your couple. And you do it without resenting it .
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 No, one is lust, one may be love. Or one may be companionship, the other love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): Only the weak-willed can.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 September 2010):
No. I believe you can lust after more than one person, and like more then one person. But any man claiming he loves more than one woman at the same time doesn't know what love is. The guy you've mentioned sounds like a player who doesn't know what love is.
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reader, Anonymous 123 +, writes (10 September 2010):
 No. I dont even want to read your entire question, because there are no justifications required. Absolutely No.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): He might be in love with 22 women. So what? Do you want to share a boyfriend or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): only cheating people have invented this concept of being able to love 2 people at the same time. its their way of justifying and believeing their own crap!
-LoveGirl
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (10 September 2010):
 Not in my opinion... unless he doesn't actually understand what its like to be TRULY in love with someone and just how exclusive their feelings are to their lover.
I love french fries, I love my friends, I love my family but I'm "IN" love with my girlfriend... big difference.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 You can't help how you feel. So technically, it is possible to love two women but how does he act on it? Is he trying to make a choice? A heart must be wholly devoted to one person, love must be given but once devoted, a heart should not be shared, I don't know if I explained that correctly. What I mean is, he has to make a choice and commit to one girl or his 'heaven' will quickly shatter into a dark hell.
I hope that helps.
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