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writes: Hello friends,i and my boyfriend had good relationship, he used to fulfill my needs and i also fulfill his needs, our sexual relation was also fine, now i started have milk in my breast, he used to fondle with my breast l**k, s**k, etc.before 10 days when i got up in the morning i noticed some spots in my bra, (yellowish spots)like puss, when i took a bath my breast were aching, i just neglected, i noticed that my cup size changing, i was afraid visited my doctor all the pregnancy results were negative, she checked and told me not to let my bf fondling my breast,she gave me some medicines, in spite of taking the medicines, milk is not stopping, it still leaks,but no pain, i told my bf the situation, now i am not able to wear my bra, it hurts me, i did not let him to touch my breast, he understands my situation, but yesterday he told me if you don't mind can u please breast feed me means he want ANR, I told him it is not possible,bcos i am afraid if my breast gets bigger, he is disappointed, he gets aroused by my boobs,i feel sorry for him, how do i handle this situation, i shouted at him it is all bcos of you,i had not let him have sex also, my n***les are sore.you people please advice me how do i accept ANR in this situation,now he not will to speak to me, i want to breastfeed for fantasy bcos i am also aroused but i am also helpless
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 October 2013):
 Gamila, I see you may have a lactation fetish: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-feed-neighbors-baby-i-am-lactating.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husnband-sucks-my-breasts-in-his-sleep.html
You also went from having a boyfriend in one to a husband and now we are back to a boyfriend again.
See a better doctor if you have unexplained discharge from your breasts. It could be a sign of a more serious medical condition.
If you want to be in an ANR, then do so.
If you are being harassed or coerced by your boyfriend? husband? into doing things you do not wish to do, end the relationship or seek couples counseling.
Take care.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 October 2013):
I looked at your symptoms on webmd. It said "When mastitis occurs in women who are not nursing, it may be a rare form of breast cancer."
Go see your doctor again for a full work up.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (6 October 2013):
 As for him not respecting the HANDS off your breasts - he needs to stop pushing for it. You need to be able to tell him no, and him not getting pouty.
There can be many reasons why you are lactating, it could be a miscarriage, it could be a hormonal fluke and it can be something that is overstimulating your pituitary gland.
Are you on any meds? (other then what the doctor gave you?)
Are anyone close to you pregnant or recently delivered? Have you spend a lot of time with a newborn recently?
Also hot showers and having a warm rag on your boobs can help you from getting mastitis.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/mastitis/DS00678
If the flow doesn't stop you might need to get referred to a Internal Medicine specialist.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2013): It's tough to say no to your partner; but when it means a health-risk, it's the only answer. You may need to find another way that doesn't cause pain, and could create other health complications. If you didn't recently give birth, you shouldn't be lactating. You are producing the wrong hormones.
Talk to your doctor. If the medicine isn't working, either it's the wrong dosage; or you're not taking them according to the prescription. Regardless, the breast-fondling must stop.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 October 2013):
 Your health should come first. I think if someone can disregard your pain in favor of a lifestyle that person has a mental illness. Breastfeeding is fun when it's done rarely. Induced lactation is done in history when a surrogate mother wants to nurse her child. It should not become a lifestyle that he survives on. You may have an infection from bite wounds. From this alone it would stop me from having another man suck my breast. He is not living in the real world.
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