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What to do for easier labor

Q.   hey everyone, again... im just chilling out in my room and i cant sleep! everytime i get settled down the bby kickes, or moves or idk, i just cant seem to fall asleep. and it really got me thinking about birth and labor. i know its going to hurt, ...

A.   10 January 2009: my friend went for hypnotherapy and she said it was great she felt no pain at all. also the say that a water birth is easier and less painful http://spinningbabies.simplwebsite.com/ this is a good website on how to get the baby into postio... (read in full...)

How do I apologive for acting like such a B*&$% about our breakout?

Q.   my boyfriend and I just broke up....he broke up with me for a B* and $% who was talkin S#^! to me when he and i were dating then made me feel even worse when we broke up. i still wanna be friends with him and i still wanna be able to hang out and ...

A.   9 January 2009: i would try and get him alone to talk to without her and then explain why you did it and let him know tht you are able to deal with it and dont want to lose the friendship tht you once had with him. hope this helps good luck x... (read in full...)

How to give my man a mind blowing experience with me on top, all answers will be appreciated!

Q.   Hey im a 17 and ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over a year. We both lost our virginty to each other and i was the first person he had ever done anything sexually with. Heres the part that will most probally shock alot of ...

A.   9 January 2009: this is a great website where men and women have put there views on what they like on top so give it a try http://ask.metafilter.com/49187/Tips-for-woman-on-top-position hope this helps good luck x... (read in full...)

I'm completely terrified I'm pregnant!

Q.   Hello all! I need some advice, I'm completly terrified. I just started my period the day before yesterday, and I was bleeding a good amount, then last night I was changing for bed and when I look at my pad, the blood was a dark brown color, when the ...

A.   9 January 2009: Well the brown blood is old blood this is just the uterus cleaning itself so i dont think you have anything to worry about. if you are pregnant but i think it would be unlikely then you should just sit him down and explain im sure he would st... (read in full...)

First she said it was sex, then she said she was raped..I'm really confused

Q.   Okay, I have a huge problem. Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me and we were apart for 6 months with no communication then she called and we picked up right where we left off. Once we got back together she told me she slept with ...

A.   9 January 2009: im really glad you are doing something about this and i really think tht you are strong enough to get through this. the first step to dealing with it is being able to talk about it which you are doing. but trust me you are not alone women... (read in full...)

My husband was raped by his boss!

Q.   I'm 31, my husband is 33 and we've been married for 4 years now. My husband works in management for a local distribution company. On Tuesday he came home from work, early in the morning after doing 3 day negotiations with a client, and said...

A.   9 January 2009: i think tht it is really great that you are there to support him when he needs you most. maybe you could get him to talk to a counselling to help him deal with it or hypnotherapy. im some people eating and and drinking is a way of forgeting... (read in full...)

First she said it was sex, then she said she was raped..I'm really confused

Q.   Okay, I have a huge problem. Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me and we were apart for 6 months with no communication then she called and we picked up right where we left off. Once we got back together she told me she slept with ...

A.   9 January 2009: after reading both comments maybe she told you that she was raped in the end because she was comsumed with guilt and didnt want to lie to you anymore. i see that you have lost alot from what has happened but she will have lost just as much. ... (read in full...)

Break up or keep the relationship going on?

Q.   You see... one of us is moving to a new country which is on the other side of the world. I think that it's impossible to marry each other in the future because of this. We will be apart for years and years without seeing each other. Now I'm not ...

A.   8 January 2009: tht depends do you think tht you could be faithful to him and him to you or do you think it would be easier just to enjoy the time you have together now and end it on good terms so tht you can stay in touch as mates. i hope this helps good luc... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of breaking up with her... but I don't want to...

Q.   Hey people, I've been with my girlfreind for almost 8 months now and I really love her, but lately I've been feeling really depressed and have been thinking about breaking up with her without trying to. I don't want to but it just seems like it's ...

A.   8 January 2009: before you finish with her and find you have made a mistake i would rejoin the team and then see how you feel. if you still feel the same then you should explain to her im sure she would be there for you and help you work through it even if it ju... (read in full...)

I'm lying to her to save her feelings...

Q.   Me and my boyfriend went to my friend's house for a drink with her and her boyfriend. We all got drunk and my boyfriend went and got in a bed upstairs and went to sleep, and my friend also went to sleep, I was left up with her boyfriend who I had ...

A.   8 January 2009: I see what you are saying about saving her feelings but in a way you could be making it worse. The longer this goes on the more humiliating it will be for her. A good friend which you seem to be would tell her she needs to know she is being use... (read in full...)

First she said it was sex, then she said she was raped..I'm really confused

Q.   Okay, I have a huge problem. Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me and we were apart for 6 months with no communication then she called and we picked up right where we left off. Once we got back together she told me she slept with ...

A.   8 January 2009: maybe she told you at first that she had sex with him because she was ashamed at what had happened to her. it is hard to deal with rape and alot of the time the brain blocks out what has happened and it is hard to remember and painfull too. i ... (read in full...)

Confidence when giving a bj?

Q.   How can I feel more confident when giving my boyfriend a blow job? I've been doing it for a while now and I don't really have a major problem with it or anything. The only real problem I have is that I don't like doing it when it's quiet becau...

A.   8 January 2009: why not put some music on while you are doing it that way it will drown out the noise. hope it helps good luck x... (read in full...)

Stop being jealous! Help!

Q.   Lately,,, i've been getting really jealous of a frend of mine, lets call her Mary, When Mary hangs around a frend i dont noe...i get really jealous. I think its because i want to become Mary's best frend. someone who she can tell anything to. So, ...

A.   8 January 2009: being jealous is one of the hardest thing to control. if she is a real friend you should tell her how you feel and she can help you work through it. you want to be the one she confides in maybe that could happen if she is the one you confide in. ... (read in full...)

Should I try to salvage what once was?

Q.   ok.soo i've known this boy since i was about 10 years old. he was my 1st kiss and my 1st boyfriend. for years me and him was real close. i am a huge flirt. and he knew that. i went out with and liked a lot of boys he knew over the years and it was ...

A.   8 January 2009: i had the same thing i slept with a friend that i have known all my life and after that he broke up with me. i didnt know what to do i really loved him. he wouldnt talk to me and he kept sleeping with other people and throwing it in my face. but ... (read in full...)

B/f on tranny sites

Q.   The other day I was in my boyfriends e-mail trying to see if I had signed him up for something for his business...Completely innocient. I am aware he likes or LOVES tranny porn he thinks they are beautiful. I am okay with this, but then I got ...

A.   8 January 2009: here is one idea why dont you look at the sites with him or even ask if you can go with him to meet them take an interest with him. he might really injoy sharing it with you. maybe he wouldnt lie if he throught you were interested to. hope it h... (read in full...)

I text a guy on new years eve saying that I liked him and now I know what to do...

Q.   I text him saying: hi, after all the time we've been spending together ive really started to like you, happy new year x and he replied with hey just got my phone back, left it somewhere safe over new years so i didnt loose it, so happy new...

A.   8 January 2009: i think you should tell him how you fell what have you got to lose and if he says no you will still have him as a friend but untill you tell him you will never know. also untill you find out you will carry on feeling like this and it could ge... (read in full...)

What to do for the best... should I just give up on him?

Q.   My friend Jack and I have been friends for like 9 months now and he used to be really sweet and nice and we had a little thing in the summer but then when school started he started just acting like he was better than me and stuff. He is a year ...

A.   8 January 2009: i thing that this lad doesnt deserve you. you are better than this and you deserve to be treated like a person not like a mat. you shouldnt put up with it he is using you as and when it suits him. as hard as it will be i think you should leave hi... (read in full...)

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