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I'm still in love with my ex and I don't know if I should try and move on or wait around for him?

Q.   some of you lot have probably read my posts from before lol. but basically i have dumped my boyfriend now, and i know how much i love my ex. and now i have been talkin to one of his best mates for a while now, and she is quite new to the town, so...

A.   24 October 2009: sweetie its simple move on. you deserve better. waiting around isnt doing anyyy good for you. put yourself out there and meet new people. i know you still love him but just try to move on. give yourself time and meet new people. dont talk to him a... (read in full...)

Hes come back into my life and I have feelings for him, does he still feel the same?

Q.   So i have a little problem. There is this guy, and we always seem to come in and out of each others lives really frequently, and there is always something between us when we do. However, the last time we met, he wanted us to become more like boyfri...

A.   28 July 2009: okay well what you need to do is tell him. its that simple. he had the courage to tell you. so you be brave and tell him. and if he keeps coming into your life then maybe you should keep him there. go for it and tell him how you feel. and if he ... (read in full...)

Guys, I want to kiss him, he said he doesn't want a relationship, will it hurt my chances, if I kiss him anyway?

Q.   Hiya! So there's this boy i met this year that i really really like. I kinda told him i'd been interested in him a few months ago; we've come to be decent friends, and he ended up asking me to senior prom. Sometimes---i like him so much---i feel the ...

A.   22 May 2009: honey i would say take chance because if you dont you will always be like what if i did? and always wonder what could have been. and im sure you are gorgeous! believe in yourself even if it may seem hard at times. GUYS LIKE CONFIDENT GIRLS. so give ... (read in full...)

My ex has been continously texting me asking about dates I have been on, why is he so interested?

Q.   My ex is on his way to being dumped and he hadn't spoke to me for a week and a half and texts me on wednesday night and said he hadn't spoke to me in a while and wanted to know how I was. I replied and he kept texting continuously for 3 hrs and ...

A.   22 May 2009: he is doing this prob because he isnt over you and misses you. he prob sees how much he lost when you left. he is jealous of you moving on. he seems like he isnt over you honeyy. i hope this helps! ... (read in full...)

She wants to break up!

Q.   Three weeks ago there was this girl that i got together with and we felt like we were the best couple ever, better than any of our other relationships. one day she just changed, she hasn't been trying to get a hold of me in any way, now she wants ...

A.   21 May 2009: aw sweetie im sorry! you cant change how someone feels. just see what happends and stay strong. i know exactly how you feel. but if she doesnt work out then she wasnt the one as much as that hurts to hear. but you will find better! dont stop ... (read in full...)

I have loved this guy for 2 years and recieved nothing but now how do I move on?

Q.   I need helpful advice for my situation. Long story short, I am in love with this guy after 2 years who I have been intimate with but we are currently not seeing each other. In fact, he only talks to me for sex and in the last 2 years, I have se...

A.   29 April 2009: its okay honey it makes sense to be upset and what you need to do is have closure. have him meet up with you and tell him how much he has hurt you and that you cared so much about him but its to late because you are done with how he makes you feel ... (read in full...)

I always text him first, does he like me?

Q.   Hello, okay..theres this guy...liked him for agggges, and Im pretty sure he might know (i may have drunk txt him a few times-not admitting it, but surely he'd question why i was texting him?) and also..when we text...its always me that texts hi...

A.   15 January 2009: well then if he doesnt text you back then just blow that off cause sometimes they just dont really want to talk (and thats nothing against you) but you seem like a great girl so he would be crazy not to like you. and remember to be yourself around ... (read in full...)

I always text him first, does he like me?

Q.   Hello, okay..theres this guy...liked him for agggges, and Im pretty sure he might know (i may have drunk txt him a few times-not admitting it, but surely he'd question why i was texting him?) and also..when we text...its always me that texts hi...

A.   14 January 2009: well the texting first thng isnt at bad cause guys usaully like it whne the girl makes the first move and maybe try not texting him for a couple says and see what happends. if he notices then maybe he will text you. and he could possibly like u! but ... (read in full...)

Did I write him off too quickly?

Q.   okay so this guy named kevin and i used to be friends like we went to camp together and stuff. and we flirted a lot at camp. but then we found out that my brother Jon was going to his school next year. so things got weird between me and kevin and ...

A.   9 January 2009: Yeah I am and he did screw me over. He made up that I asked him out and told a lot of people in his grade.. and made me look really dumb. I just miss him sometimes. ... (read in full...)

I occasionally think of my ex, should I talk to him or stay happy with my current boyfriend?

Q.   there was this guy i had a relationship with over the summer... we loved each other (keep in mind i am only a teenager so i think it was love but i definitely felt it) and our relationship stopped because of our parents, we don't talk anymore but ...

A.   9 January 2009: well i dont know what happend between you guys but if u stoped over your parents that isnt far well unless something bad happend between you two. but the choice shold have been up to you guys. and its clear you still love this boy or you wouldnt be ... (read in full...)

Will this feeling ever go away?

Q.   Almost 7 months and still in love with my ex. Uch, will it ever end!? ...

A.   9 January 2009: yes it will i promise! Just give it time and everythng will heal its self. just take a deep brethe and know that things will all get better in time. ... (read in full...)

We were together 4 years. How can she replace me so quickly?

Q.   Dear aunts, I need help bad, I'm sick of feeling hurt all the time, split from a good/bad relationship in november, not had contact or seen my ex at all but my friends and family seen her a few times and they come and tell me that they seen her and ...

A.   9 January 2009: aw sweetie its gonna be okay! and the truth is she is missing out of an amazing guy who really cared about her. and maybe she is hurt too and is just rebounding right now. and just take your time. and i know its hard to believe right now but time ... (read in full...)

Oh lord... he's come back to me again??!!

Q.   Let me condense this essay worth of a question down to a simple yet truthful question. I started casually dating this man who was not only dry humoured, overly sarcastic and independant but gradually as the relationship progressed; showed many ...

A.   8 January 2009: no problem sweetie! and good you are doing the right thing! and you will find someone so much better downt the road. and anyone would be lucky to have u! dont forget that. ... (read in full...)

Break up or keep the relationship going on?

Q.   You see... one of us is moving to a new country which is on the other side of the world. I think that it's impossible to marry each other in the future because of this. We will be apart for years and years without seeing each other. Now I'm not ...

A.   8 January 2009: if u cant see a future with him then no. and long distance is soo hard so many people cant do it. only people who truley love each other and know there destination is with them then long distance can work. but you said u cant see a future with him. ... (read in full...)

Oh lord... he's come back to me again??!!

Q.   Let me condense this essay worth of a question down to a simple yet truthful question. I started casually dating this man who was not only dry humoured, overly sarcastic and independant but gradually as the relationship progressed; showed many ...

A.   8 January 2009: hon i really believe that you need to end communication with him and just never take him back. and i know you love him. but he blinds you makes u think he really cares about you but he keeps leaving you. and he might care a little at the time. but ... (read in full...)

Do long distance relationships work?

Q.   hi im a 14 year old boy right now me and this girl like each other but i live in new york and she lives in maine, we only knew each other online and i met her 2 weeks ago. she just broke up with her boyfriend and i really want her to be my ...

A.   8 January 2009: i know how you feel sweetie. me and this guy went out and i was 14 too and we tried long distance and it doesnt work. im sorry. i wish it did. but relationships even as adults are so hard to work long distance wise. and im sure shes a great girl and ... (read in full...)

Does he still care or is this a tactic to reel me in again??

Q.   I had an 'emotional affair' with a guy at work, who is is really brought the best out of me, a part i let go of until I met him. He reeled me in, I never found him attractive, but now I do, we felt for eachother no doubt, but I could not take the ...

A.   6 January 2009: hun its good your r moving out of this situation! its the right thing cause he is married. and i know you like him but its best to get out before you get in way to deep. and i dont know him but i dont think he should being do this to his wife. and i ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do, shall I tell him? Does he like me? How could I put it?

Q.   Theres this guy who I really like, and we act like we're a couple when we do see each other, but he lives 3 hours away. I recently stayed for a few days, and fell in love with him even more. He initiated everything, and why would he be the one ...

A.   4 January 2009: i know how you feel. and i really think you should tell him take a risk. and then u will know. and the distance really isnt that far away. and the way u could tell him is is be like can i tell you somethng? and he will be like yeah then say i dont ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him what I feel about him or should I just forget everything?

Q.   2 years ago, I broke up with someone..Well we actually weren't official lovers but we date and talk often and are intimate. You know, that part in a relationship that is complicated and you're somewhere between going up the next level or remaining ...

A.   2 January 2009: honey you cant help how you feel. and i really think you should tell him. and i know you dont want to hurt anyone.. but sometimes u have to be selfish and think about yourself.. your hurting yourself here. i dont know you but from what you have ... (read in full...)

My best guy friend beat me up - am I overreacting to what he did to me?

Q.   My Best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for almost 4 and a half years. A year ago we were at work,and I said out loud how much money he had,even though nobody had heard me, he got mad and lightly slapped me across my face.I got so ...

A.   2 January 2009: sweetie i know how it feels.. but he will never stop abusing u.. its who he is. and i know how hard that is to accept. but you need to be done with him. and i know you love him which makes it the hardest part but he can be a great friend im sure.. ... (read in full...)

How do I make my ex regret what he did to me

Q.   I am 15. How can I make my ex boyfriend regret dumping me? He is a coward and dumped me by text. I want to make him regret it... but how? ...

A.   2 January 2009: the thing is if he would dump you through text then he is a huge jerk and you dont want him. and i know it hurts a lot right now but its not worth making them regret it. cause what is done is done. and you need to show him and yourslef your better ... (read in full...)

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