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writes:My boyfriend told me he had a wet dream last night. In it,a man was masturbating him. And he came in it. I find that disgusting. He said it was only a dream and he's straight. Pls help. Is that normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (4 July 2008):
 It's completely normal. Dreams are dreams and you can't take them very seriously. Don't interpret this to mean that your boyfriend secretly wants to do this or is actually gay. To be fair, that could be the fact - I don't know your boyfriend. However, a dream is just a dream and we can't take them seriously or literally.
Don't worry sweetness!
xx India
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (4 July 2008):
 Hi,
it may be a little wierd, but certainly not proof of homosexual tendencies. I have to admit I have never had a dream like that, but If I did I wouldnt tell my partner! I'd be trying to blank it out!
holy cow!
But seriously, is he a physical lover and you have a great sex life?
Does he look at other men's butts(sorry)? Possess gay porn? There are many factors that can give hints away, and you wouldnt be the first women to go out with a gay man who is in denial.
But lets be real here, a dream really means nothing, it just a little wierd thats all. But at least he was open with you about it , which means he trusts you to be open with his innermost thoughts. That's gotta count for something.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (4 July 2008):
 Define normal.Normal? yes. commen?... maybe?Dreams are weird, wonderful and powerful things.i once watched the end of the world. very Terminator 2 style. you know big'ol mushroom cloud and fire etc etc.disturbing? yes!is it gonna happen? probably not.i also have dreams about groups of women wanting to have sex with me. but even in my world i don't see this happening anytime soon unless i pay for it.show you bf some gay porn. if he says " Wow.. that looks great.. oh yeah thats for me"then you may have a problem. other wise all is well, asides from the bed sheets.
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