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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hi im 16 and my ex boyfriend is 18 we dated for 2 years and recently broke up 1 month ago and he has been living wit me for close to 2 years and is like a part of the family he still lives wit me even tht were broke up he has nowhere else to go it oes not bother me but the reason we broke up is because i love him but im not in love wit him wen we would kiss i felt nothin and i still feel nothing but i really would like the life we could have together as far as a future goes but i also love to flirt and be single everyone tells me breaking up wit him is a huge mistake so i would like advice as to should i do wat makes me happy or force our relationship to work also my mom likes him so much she will not let me see anyone else and wen i talk to other guys she threatins to take away my phone plzz help its very complicated i know but i need help thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): he is graduated has a very good job and helps wen hes asked and i kinda look at him like a brother now its very weird. his family doesnt talk to him they barely have a place for themselves.
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reader, MamaBear +, writes (16 March 2011):
So, you and the guy have been together since you were about 14. This means you have not had a taste of life! For example: dating, flirting, interacting with classmates, school activities, girl friends, maybe a part-time job, going to the Prom, etc. I question why a young man has no place to live. Where is his family? If it seems like he is "part of the family", then you could mean he could be more like an older brother? You said very little about him. Is he attending school? Already graduated? Has a good job? Are you sexually involved? Is he paying rent to your mother and helping with food expenses? You need to maybe talk with a school counselor and take any suggestion he/she may have. I would not want my young daughter to be so heavily involved in a young man. Neither of you are even dry behind the ears. And, you could be a very young parent and then what? All the exciting things that lies ahead of a young adult after high school will never be realized!
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