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female
age
41-50,
*m2011
writes:I am in a relationship with a guy who lives with his elderly mum ,sometimes it feels like we don't have much time alone together ,she gets him doing jobs around the house .I see him every 3 weeks ,he did say we could go away together soon ,but now he has said later in the year . but last week he said would i come on holiday with him and his mum ,i wasn't sure what to say . I feel bad feeling like this ,but i know he has to help his mum with chores etc .
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 naw I would end it..
you only see him every 3 weeks..
he's too tied to his mom....
and a holiday with his mom would have you tagging behind.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (11 April 2012):
 In all honesty, if you only see him every 3 weeks, it's not that often and he should make time for you when he sees you. He lives with his mum and if he's around your age, maybe he's just a 'mummy's boy' and is at her beck and call...for a lot of women, that would be a deal breaker!!
I am not sure if I would want to go on a holiday with him and his mum, especially when he has backed out on a holiday with you alone.
Truth is, it's probably not going to change all the time she is around so if you can't stand the heat, you probably need to get out of the relationship.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 April 2012):
 Just how elderly is his mother?
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