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I don't want a relationship with him, I just want to be friends....how do I tell him without hurting him?

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Question - (11 April 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

heya, im not sure what i want in my life yet as i am fed up of being used and do want a relationship,

iv been meeting up with this boy and he wants to move to the next level and start to see eachother, and as i said i do want a relationship but dont know if i want 1 with him, i want to stay friends as he is a nice boy but i dont know how to tell him. iv tryed not to text him but he just keeps texting even if i dont reply or phones, iv tryed not to met up with him but he just keeps asking and asking.

i dont want to hurt him but really dont know how to tell him without hurting him ??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2012):

Be honest with him, you can't tell him without hurting him, but by not telling him and being honest with him you are hurting him more, and putting him through more agony than is required. It is not pleasant to tell someone your not interested in them, but it's even more unpleasant to be ignored by someone because they are too scared to be honest with you because it makes them uncomfortable. Good Luck

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