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I want to be happy again, I feel as though I'm not alive, and my fire has burnt out.

Q.   I have had a relationship for 4 years, we have children together. I don't know why but for some reason the past few months I don't feel the same. I'm worried that's it, it's run its course. I can honestly say I have never even considered being with...

A.   21 April 2008: You definitely need a break. Its not about him but because of You. Why dont you suggest going somewhere for the weekend or in any spare time and have some fun? If I were in your shoes I would suggest anything that would give satisfaction to me. Even ... (read in full...)

I have some problems and I need to talk..can you help?

Q.   Hi, I'm worried and anxious all the time over a range of problems i seem to have at the moment and they are... i have just graduated from university and i went to a pretty prestigeous university for my degree but come out of uni with a great re...

A.   13 December 2007: Beckie it seems ur reflecting my situation. AND when ppl ask me how Im now, Im answering COMFORTABLY NUMB. In such situations maybe is not the perfect solution but it is a solution. You should help ur mom,no matter of everything.Be numb about the ... (read in full...)

To boys: are you afraid of being turned down by a very pretty girl, therefore prefer someone "in your league" ?

Q.   Guys please help me. Is it true that some guys are scared of being knocked down by a very pretty girl and that you go for someone who is slightly more in your 'league' ?? I have friends who are told they are pretty the whole time and are not s...

A.   8 December 2007: Thats definately True. Wanted to admit or not Guys are generally scared of being turned down by pretty and intelligent girls, and just But a small percentige of them is couragious enough to go on and strive for. Girls are not acception, The same... (read in full...)

A present that suggests eternity for my boyfriend. Any suggestions?

Q.   Okay well as you all know, Its almost Christmas. And i have to get my Boyfriend a preset, very soon. But i have no idea what to get him. We're both Fifteen. So we're still in highschool, so i dont have that much money. So it can't be that expensive. ...

A.   8 December 2007: I think that the best present to give him is Something that is really of great immportance and meaning for you.. For ex, I would give my bf who I love and Loves me smalls "balls" called the tears of MAry which one Monarch gave me as we travelle... (read in full...)

He didnt include me in his statement about family. He put me separate and I am hurt. Am I being oversensitive?

Q.   This question is to all the boyfriends out there...if you are truthful and honest to your girlfriend, and you really love her, wont u say she's a part of your family? My boyfriend didnt do that. We were at a cookout that his friend was having. And ...

A.   6 December 2007: Becouse You re His Girl ;) Simply ... (read in full...)

What do guys actually like/look for in a girl?

Q.   What do guys actually like/look for in a girl? Does it really appeal to a guy when a girl cakes on makeup? Loads of foundation and blush, and black eyelinered eyes? Do they care of a girl is on a diet? Do they care if she is a size 8 with a f...

A.   3 December 2007: If they know what they re looking for i would hang myself on the wrapper!! A real Man,who has no problem with himeslf and his masculinity , would like probably:Good looking and in addition intelligent, witty and authentic woman Who he will not ... (read in full...)

Will he marry me?

Q.   I have been with a guy for 10 months and I know he is the one... but am scared to bring up the subject we have both been married once before and he used to say he would never get married... but recently he has been saying that our relationship ...

A.   3 December 2007: I would say depends of your patience. For.ex i dont have much and if was put in your shoes I would push the issue. You have 2 options: To hint at him or to ask Him plainly. Its on personal estimation which One would choice. Good Luck... (read in full...)

Best gift to give your ex gf on their birthday? I want to win her back.

Q.   what is the best gift to buy my ex girlfriend, her bday is in a month and we broke up last week. Im not speaking to her but i want her back. And i would like to give her a gift that would make her smile and happy...

A.   3 December 2007: Win her back!!!mmm , try with flowers and a nice msg that will express ur feelings ,My sugestion only... (read in full...)

Is she lying to me?

Q.   Hi, I met my girlfriend before 1 year and 6 months and i love her so much, in the begining we used to see each other every two weeks. during the first year i am helping her financily all the time and she used to see me when i have to give her the ...

A.   29 November 2007: How old is ur gf? Hope not teen. If so might be that father forbids her to see you but if enough mature she just want to be 1.Alone some time to figure out some things, She is not certain about 2.doesnt want to be with you anymore. Thats my conc... (read in full...)

How to get pictures back without being harsh

Q.   im fed up with my parents mingling in my life.My mom, especially has that habit of controlling and mingling constantly,I just feel her like some Dictator hanging over my head.Ive discovered that she has taken all the photos of my album from my ...

A.   8 November 2007: Thank you all for answering me. I appreciate a lot. I agree should not be here, but waiting to finish my last exam and will get away as soon as its done. Simply there is no point in trying to make any communication with them.I just want not to go ... (read in full...)

Doesn't he get it?

Q.   Dear Friends,my bf has made all plans for him to go on holiday, without taking me into consideration at all, and YET he claims that he Loves me, and wants to be with me! I dont know if im exaggerating,but if i Do love and Care for Somebody, would ce...

A.   17 October 2007: Thanks all for your answers. I really know what I want,but on the other hand i Loved him, and he gave me the immpression that He does too. I was in doubt,wheather i want to much from him after only 6 months, but i really do not think so.Today ,He ... (read in full...)

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