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writes:Uhm ... Hello. This question is a bit embarassing for me but uhm ... yeah. My boyfriend and me are having a long-distance-relationship so we don't see each other very often but we are telephoning and chatting all the time. Two months ago we started having telefonsex and soon afterwards cybersex. And uhm ... We are having this a lot. Almost every day. I asked my boyfriend if we were having to much t/c sex and he told me he doesn't think so. We aren't even having real sex (both still virgins) so it's okay, he says, but if I don't want to anymore he would respect my wish and won't push me.I really like doing this with him but I wonder if it is unnormal...Are we having to much telefone/cybersex? And are the things we talk about to ... much? (Even if we like it soft too, we often talk about having really hard sex, roleplays ...) Are we to young for such things? We are, aren't we?Or am I simply overreacting and everything is okay ... ?Thank you ...
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reader, Dataluke  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 As far as I can gather, you are only worrying because you think it might be abnormal. If you like doing it that often and want to do it that often then do it that often.
Your boyfriend has already said that he will stop doing it that often if you want to so if it really bothers you that much then you can reduce it.
There really is nothing wrong with doing it that often if you feel comfortable with doing it that often and want to do it that often.
All the best, Dataluke
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 April 2012):
 do you know this boy in real life or is it just on the internet?
if you are worried then it might be over the top and you may want to cut back, especially if you have never met IRL....
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