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writes:I am writing because my boyfriend is starting to develop insecurities about his penis size. I have had bigger in both length and girth, but it isn't his length that bothers him. I was wondering if there was any possible way to increase the girth of his penis. At the moment he is around 4 inches around and he wants to increase that to match his length of 5 inches. Are there any ways to increase girth?Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2011): put a pillow under your back so your hips are up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011): I had similar concerns about my self when I first met my current girlfriend. In fact, I have always felt a little insecure about my penis size even though it is roughly 6 inches long 5 around, which is slighlty normal (maybe even a little above average) as I have heard from many people. I would suggest discussing it in a mature manner with him, as my girlfriend and I did. One word of advice when discussing it with him though: only focus on his size, do not make any comparisons to previous man you have been with. This can only bring up other unnecessary arguments if he is truly insecure with himself. In regards to actually making his penis size bigger there are some things that can work, as I have found over the past year. As with any other health concern, penis size is effected by what most doctors will tell you for any part of your body: diet and exercise. Personally, I have found that losing weight has helped with the appearance of being bigger. I have lost almost 25 lbs. since new years eve and have noticed that some of the extra weight that was around my groin is now gone, revealing more of my penis that was formerly hidden by the fat. This has given me a big boost in my sexual confidence with my girlfriend. If your boyfriend is a little overweight maybe try suggesting a little exercise, it helps a lot!Also, my girlfiend had told me that it is not necessarily the size that matters, but the strength and hardness of the erection. I would assume that this would be similar for any woman. The stronger the erection, the better penetration and motion the man can give a woman. To help this, talk to your boyfriend about his diet. Certain diet habits actually limit blood flow in the body, therefore limiting the strength of a man's erection. I researched certain foods that improve blood pressure and blood flow in the body and started eating many of them on a regular basis. To be honest, it has made me bigger, and my girlfriend noticed too. It is not that it actually got bigger magically, it was just that I was not reaching my full potential when I was aroused. This may also be something you can discuss with your boyfriend. Some of the foods that I researched and found to work are a variety of fruit, ie bananas, blueberries, watermelon in particular. Several cups of green tea a day, protein high in omega 3 fatty acids like salmon and other seafood, and a little extra dark chocolate. Also, cut down on saturated fats and cholestrol, alcohol, and tobacco. I used to drink quite a bit and have now cut down and almost drink none. And I also look for new foods that can help. After changing my eating habits, I measured and actually notice I gained a half inch in length and girth when fully erect! I'm sure this will help with you and your boyfriend. I hope this helps. I know it worked for me and my girlfriend. Everything about me has increase and it couldn't be better. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011): Yes he satisfies me. Sometimes it's hard to orgasm through intercourse. Are there some positions that will help achieve orgasm during intercourse?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): Did he have a problem with his size before you mentioned it? Does his size bother you? If it doesn't then you should tell him that. I really hope you haven't told him that you've been with bigger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): His size is fine, as long as you are fine with him.What you need to do is teach him how to be the best lover you have ever had. You teach him to be that, he doesn't do it without help. You tell him that, that you want him to be your lover, not a dick with a penis attached to it.You tell him that.Make sure that he understands you are not looking for bigger, smaller, wider, longer, thinner, etc, penises, but are looking for a lover to satisfy your needs. Tell him how he does that, which means you talk to him. He does that with smiles, hugs, flowers, touching, telling you your hair looks nice, complimenting you no your smile, touching your ear, and with sex. You tell him that you don't give a rat's ass about his penis size, or anyone elses either, and you mean it, and you live it, and you work with him to make the lovemaking and relationship the best thing you could ever imagine.You don't lie to him.You don't evade him.You focus on him and your relationship.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 You can buy a masturbator, sort of a tube like device that you put on around the penis. That will make it thicker.
Other than that, there is no way to change penis size, and if you've had larger do not ever tell him.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 There are surgeries to increase girth.
http://www.penis-enlargement.org/surgery.htm
However, this is only reccomended for "severe" thin penises. The prolem here is yours, do some kegals.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 As an old man I can tell you he will always be "wishing it was bigger" I don't think there is a pill or excerscise though that will help. If his is big enough for you then that's all he needs to know but he'll always be insecure...we can't help it we just know that bigger is better and don't know what in the heck to do about it. It's just a guy thing I guess...It's like girls always fretting about their weight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): No there isn't not even surgery can increase girth.
You can however make yourself tighter by doing kegel exercises.
Girth won't be an issue if you learn how to squeeze down on him during sex.
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