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writes: I'm curious, when you like someone (making eye contact, smiling, brushing arms, etc), is it possible that they feel the same way about you as well?(We're both 17-18)I go to sports practice twice a week and I always look forward to it. Now I have even more to look forward to because of this guy. We smile at each other occasionally, talk a bit and I've developed feelings for him. It's quite difficult for me to not to think about him during school or 5 minutes before practice starts (he doesn't attend my school). Are feelings subconsciously reciprocated..or...does it depend on the person? Have you ever wondered the same thing? My gut feeling most of the time says "yes, they like you too." (and after a few weeks, something usually sparks from there).What sucks is that I have to wait about 3 days just to see him again, and it just gets me anxious. and when i do see him, i get butterflies inside, ahhh!. yeah, jusssst wondering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): In my experience, there is usually a gut instinct you get about these things. There are ways to test it - for example the mirroring technique. Be subtle, but when you are talking if you change your posture, quite often if I guy likes you he will mirror how you are, i.e. he will do the same. This isnt right 100% of the time, sometimes people are really good communicators and will do this with people they dont fancy at all. You should talk to him more whilst you are at sports practice, perhaps ask if he has a girlfriend, but work it into the conversation dont come right out with it. That way if he does, or if he doesnt have feelings for you, then you wont feel silly for asking. Most of all relax! If you are anxious and worried and build it up too much in your mind, this will show when you are with him and you wont be true to yourself.
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