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Ant tips, I need a bf

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Question - (7 November 2007) 11 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, im a 6th grader but im never single. this school year i havent had 1 single boyfriend!!! i cant stand it, my friends talk about kissing guys, i havent kissed a guy yet. i feel so left out, im not sure if any one likes me. I NEED A BF!!! Any tips or anything?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007):

I don't know how old you are but it's nothing to be ashamed of at your age. I'm 16 and i stil haven't had a bf which is really frustrating because it seems everyone else has one but most of my mates havent had one either. So its perfectly normal, i suggest just live your life as normal have fun and sometime you'll find some1. Well thats what i tell myself anyway. Just concentrate on your m8s, family and having fun for now xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007):

Sweetie I'm 14 and I got my first kiss 2 years ago. Trust me it isn't even that great unless the person means anything to you. The guy didn't mean anything to me so it was whatever. TRUST ME you will find someone it may be hard to hear your friends talk about it and I have friends who talk about having sex and kissing guys but you've got to realize it honestly is not even great you are too young anyway... you are 11. i sound stupid saying that but it is the truth, you've got soooooooo much time trust me something WILL happen just dont rush it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007):

Okay, I'm in 9th grade, no boyfriend either. You have plenty of time. Don't do anything you'll regret.

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A female reader, Kait Ireland +, writes (7 November 2007):

Kait agony auntIn my experience, the minute you genuinely forget about getting a boyfriend is the time you find one. Just be yourself and don't try to act as you think a guy would want you to act. The most attractive thing in a person is their ability to be try to themselves and to be confident in who they are. Good luck and don't stress about this!! X

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A female reader, xxLucyxx United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2007):

Hey Huni

Listen u dont need a boyfreind just yet, trust me wait its the best thing. They give u nothing but heartache. You may feel left out but the longer you wait the better because when you do come across dating someone they will appreciate you more....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007):

boyfriend who need em to much pain and suffing and crying i mean i just got dumped to day im in 6th grade too i was crying all day none stop does her care no if you ask me i think all of us are better of single well good luck maby your in my school:o that would be sweet

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A female reader, PreciousGemx United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2007):

PreciousGemx agony auntMy advice is get plenty of guy mates who trust you. its best bcos they get too no you first and eventually fall for you. its classic.

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2007):

baybee-x-sparkii agony aunti dont no quite where sixth grade is in english terms, but no offencce to guys but they are not everything at that age. the chance of falling in love is very very small. just be friendly to guys and get to know them, this is one of the main ways.

i would say just relax be yourself and let them come to you :D

x

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A female reader, hugs2muchgal United States +, writes (7 November 2007):

hugs2muchgal agony auntWow...you're in 6th grade. Chill. A boyfriend does not equal happiness. You're young so enjoy school and friends, movies and parties, WITHOUT worrying about where your next boyfriend will come from. If you haven't kissed anyone by 6th grade you're normal. Don't let your hormones control you...use your brain!

sorry to be harsh, but I remember 6th grade, and ya...by then boys weren't really ready to date so it's better to not even think about dating for at least another year or two. Enjoy your childhood. Don't make it start even earlier, the complication!

-Hugs

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007):

dude calm down i only just had my first kiss and im 16! get ova urself on worry bout more important stuff lyk wat ur gonna wear tht day or something

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A male reader, Ryder  +, writes (7 November 2007):

Ryder agony auntI dont know if your serious or not... but um ... what you need a boyfriend for? its not like kissing is the coolest thing to do in 6th grade or is it? :o

Well yeah when i was in 6th grade i went mad for all those pretty girls but it was never a big deal that i didnt experience any relationship and the only kiss i had was from a girl in truth and dare lol !!!

Seriously speaking if you do have a problem with this all i can say is just dont think about it get yourself busy with some sport or so, in time, you will get a boyfriend if you play your cards right.

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