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writes:Hi.So i've been going to a Physical Fitness Gym for sometime . I usually go with my friend to the gym and about 4 days ago he and I were both and the gym and he noticed a girl giving US a hard stare. Typically, just because its me and especially since I was with my friend I thought she thought I was weird or whatever, however as the day progressed the stares became more frequent and at the end of my day I do abit of running on a Treadmill. On the Treadmill with my mate beside me she went on a walker thing right infront of us which I found abit bizarre after a akward day of getting stared at . Then today we saw her again and she gives us the stares again, not just a glance but a stare even with turning her head towards us.The gym is a huge place and my friend and I are not lean cut muscular folk. Also, I know its natural/common for people to glance at people, but her stares are hard, even when I look back at her she continues to look. I know that, there cant be other people she's staring at because it has also happened in the less popular areas of the gym where only me, my mate and her are present.I am writing this because I analyze everything and I am very eager to know why I am getting stared down (and my friend to) but on the other hand, part of me thinks maybe its a sign of attraction who knows. I am not the type of person who approaches a girl and "hits on them"I know this might sound confusing or perhaps vague but I would very much like a persons opinion on the matter. Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 Hi,
I would ask her out for a coffee. If she agrees you might be on to something and you can find out what she's like.
If she does'nt then you can ask her "well then would you please stop staring at me , its very unnerving"
Easy.
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reader, janhockeynut  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 I had to answer, because I had a similar experience at work. A new girl started, sat behind me, and would glare at people. It actually made us very uncomfortable. I asked my mom, who is a psychologist, why this woman burned holes in our faces every day. Mom said she was either VERY nervous, or psychotic. Turns out she was just nervous , because she stopped.
I have another theory...I have be caught looking at people for longer than a second or two...it's always because the strongly resemble an ex- boyfriend.
Hope this helps
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reader, indibob +, writes (7 November 2007):
simple really to find out... Have you tried smiling at her as she is staring? If she smiles back, then thats a green light to start up conversation.
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