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An older girl just wont back off from my boyfriend

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Question - (7 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2010)
A female South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

im an 8th grade girl who is currently dating an11th grade guy in my school. Ive known him since 2008.we stared dating in the begining of february and hes relationships usually last even though hes a playa. He flirts alot with girls older than me and he sortof cheated on me once. We broke up and got back together after a couple of days and we were on fire. But lately theres this girl he goes to classes with, and she just wont back off. We havent really spoken for 5 days and i really dont know what to do.

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A female reader, sarcy24 United Kingdom +, writes (7 March 2010):

sarcy24 agony auntWhen I was about your age I was going out with a lovely boy called Michael. He srarted paying a lot of attention to an older girl who was in the same year and classes as him and I lost him to her. She was very sweet and I was very possessive and I pushed him away from me to her. They were always hanging around in the corridors and in the playground. I eventually realised I was wasting my time and that he was no longer interested in me. It didn't matter what I did he no longer wanted to be with me. It is time now for you to let him go and move on. No texts or calls or banging into him in the corridor nonsense just let him go. Don't demean yourself any longer with this. Let him go and get on with it and you can now have a little break and then start looking for someone else.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (7 March 2010):

Time to move on. There is not such thing as 'sort of cheating'. There is only cheating. And you haven't spoken in 5 days. Move on.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (7 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntThe ship has sailed. It is time to move on .You could fight for him but will it be worth it ?

From the look of things, he has given you up. Time to meet new friends and enjoy your new life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010):

Take it as a sign, and ditch the loser. When you get rid of one problem(like him), you get rid other problems(like her). Go with a guy who will respect you unconditionally, and all others around him will respect you, too.

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