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writes:So after I found out my fiance has a child that he thought was not his things have been weird. Right now we are in two different states for about three more weeks. He constantly tells me he loves me and we have been engaged for a year. His daughter's mother is constantly trying to cause problems. After he found out that his daughter was his he had no choice but to communicate with her. After checking the phone records I see that she has been blowing up his phone all day and night. We even got his number changed because she would not stop calling. She seems to think that I want to keep him away from his daughter because he told her to stop calling him so much. Lately she has been putting up messages on Myspace with things saying "If you think he's cheating he is", and "I'm waiting on him", etc. This gets to me and causes me to accuse him of being with her. Every time he doesn't answer the phone I suspect something. I even make him call me when he's going to pick up his daughter. I know she's a liar because when we confronted her about the child a year ago she said it wasn't his. Am I wrong for accusing him when she obviously feels that we are not going to be together since I am not there? Or do I have a right to be upset? What do I do about her? Should I ignore her comments and handle her when I get there? Sorry for so many questions in one I"m just frustrated with me not being able to confront her since I'm not there.
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reader, Charleybabes0811  +, writes (20 November 2008):
Calm down for starters.She's obviously threatened by you. She either wants to be with him or is scared you'll take him away from her daughter... or maybe even her daughter will like you more.I'm sure its hard for her, but shes being pathetic, so talk to him about it, and get him to talk to herLemme know how it works out x
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