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writes:I'm a little concerned about the guy I'm dating, I mean he told me how lonely he was in his marriage (divorced now)and how they didn't have sex for the last 2-3 years of their marriage so in turn, he cheated on his wife. The problem is, it sounds like he cheated on her well before they stopped sex. Based on what he told me he was fooling around at year 2 of their marriage (married 9 years) but says he was miserable and that's why. That he made a misake and married the wrong person and he didnt' feel there was a way out. What concerns me is that he seemed desperate to meet ANYONE. I saw some of his correspondence to women he met over the years and every single one sounded like he loved them and seemed so desparate to meet someone who loved him back. I don't know if i should feel sorry for him or be worried? Am I special or did I just take the bait? Reply to this Question
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reader, 48years  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 I dunno...my antenna are just twitching about this guy. Too bad you can't talk to an ex of his...
There's a guy in our town who's been married a few times and hits on every female unfortunate enough to cross his path. He told my visiting girlfriend that his first wife cheated on him... guess what? It was he who was the cheater (I know his ex).
Guys tell you who they are pretty much at the beginning of a relationship.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (5 February 2009):
 I think you took the bait too, tasteofindia is right, time to move on.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 February 2009):
 It seems like you took the bait, sweetness. Don't make the mistake that his poor ex-wife made and stick around thinking that he will commit to you, love you, be faithful to you. He won't change and he's just reading you the same script he's read to Lord knows how many other women.
Glad to hear that you're smart enough to see through his game! Good for you and don't hang around!
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