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Wife and sex toys!

Q.   So I need some advice. My wife and I have been married for 18 years and have 3 kids. About a year or so ago, some of my wife’s girlfriends were all talking about vibrators and my wife admitted to being a “vibrator virgin”. Her girlfriends told...

A.   7 September 2010: You are just a perfect husband, just show her what you wrote here and the responses and she'll just melt. Good luck... (read in full...)

After my husband cheated and I moved out I slept with another man, it feels so good to get revenge for what my husband did to me! Was I wrong to do this?

Q.   After i realised that its not working out, we both agreed that i should move out and get a place of my own, i moved out and i was still angry at him for cheating and all the bad treatment i got from my mother in law.i have been staying alone for ...

A.   7 September 2010: Thank you all for responding, it gives me a clear understanding of what i did and why i did it, i now think its was not because he cheated but because i get lonely, and this guy was just available, there is no going back in that relationship and ... (read in full...)

Ache in my head and I can't move my body after finding out he's been cheating!

Q.   i have just discoverd that my hubby hav been cheating with a widow who is far more older than me i am 25.he never sleeps outside,but i started to worry two weeks ago, when he told me he was going to work on a saterday, he went the whole day and came ...

A.   31 May 2010: THANK YOU ALL FRO RESPONDING.... (read in full...)

Complicated Emotional Affair - What Next?

Q.   I am a male who began teaching at a community college 2 years ago as a second career. Shortly after starting at the college, I began tutoring as a means of earning additional income. One of my first students was a recently separated woman ar...

A.   24 May 2010: i think you created the gap between you and your wife by always being at work and no time for your family,the ather woman is in contact with you and you feel connected because you are always with her instead of your wife. if the other woman was your ... (read in full...)

Was my husband having an affair?

Q.   i separated from my husband because he is prioritizing his friends and co-workers, and before that happened i usually noticed him that he always go home late at night and my brother saw him late night that he was doping of a girl in someplace but he ...

A.   24 May 2010: I SAY YU mst learn to controll your feelings before they control you. but you must also be careful of hm. he should be going out with you not some girls... (read in full...)

Am I right to be paranoid about my boyfriend staying over at his ex's house?

Q.   my boyfriend made out with a girl last summer and he is going to stay round her house this summer with a few friends. i am also going on a camp with him where i am going to meet her. thing is im kind of worried about both? how do i stop being ...

A.   20 May 2010: girl you must open your eyes and listen to your heart, if you feel that it does not make you happy, then he must not go stay there,or to save yourself just tell him thaht you want to cool it off for a while... (read in full...)

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