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writes:So I have been dating a girl for a couple months now. She is incredible and I am so lucky to know her. We became exclusive a month ago and have been loving it. On Wednesday we spent the whole day together and she held my hand and was sad to say goodbye that night even though we were going to a movie the next day. The next day we went to a movie and I could tell that something was off. She is tired and she says she is kinda grumpy. She isn't as touchy-feely and when I tried to hold her hand she found an excuse to let go and didn't make herself available again that night. I'm probably paranoid but should I be worried? I've tried backing off and I haven't heard from her much. Is she losing interest? Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 December 2012):
 I normally hate saying this, but maybe she's on her period? Definitely do not ask though.
Just give her some space for the next few days and see what happens. If nothing happens for a few days, just ask what's wrong. But give her space for now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2012): Jesus OP relax. We're allowed have bad days you know. Surely you have your days when you'e just pissed off and not in the mood for anything?
Well girls can get that way too. Maybe she was even on the blob.
Means nothing, relax
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reader, ScaredForLove +, writes (15 December 2012):
That sounds like what happens occasionally with my girlfriend of 8 months. Maybe she is upset about something? Is something wrong in other aspects of her life? Maybe she just wants to talk about something but doesn't know how.
Or she could be scared of getting attached to you. My gf was always cautious about love and one of those girls terrified of getting hurt. Maybe its like that?
You should probably ask her about it, maybe it's just that time of the month and she's a little on edge. Give it a few more days, but try and ask her about anything that could be wrong in her life, if she still feels distant in a few days ask her if she still wants to be with you or what's going on.
Best of luck :) xx
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