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writes:Okay, well there is this guy and we met through school.(He now goes to a different school) When the summer holidays came round, was when we got talking, we met once that holiday too. We flirt and have a great time when we talk to eachother. But I relised that he only talks to me on school holidays. So during school time I won't even get a text from him at all, but suddenly in the half term, he wants to meet up.On my birthday (during half-term) he said he would come see me, I said yeah okay come if you want. He said I definately will but he didn't. He texted that night saying:Him: Sorry I couldn't make it todayMe: Oh thats okayHim: I was really looking foward to seeing you againMe: Aw Well I guess we could meet up sometime this week?Him: Yeah obviouslyMe: Just say whenHim: Okay :)That was the last time I spoke to him, he never replied to me when to meet him. Also school has started again, so I doubt he would speak to me. Whenever I talk to him it seems I put all the effort in. When we talk he calls me 'Babes' and stuff like that. Is he just making me past time to him for when he is bored? I don't want to end up falling for someone who doesn't really feel the same. So what should I do?
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reader, bardia  +, writes (28 February 2012):
 Just say you're busy and you're not sure when you'll be available to get back to him. Do that enough times & he'll get the point. I totally understand not wanting to come off as rude, but really, it's self-preservation. And how about his behavior? Is it not rude to you? You're worth more than this. You can do it. You'll feel so much lighter once you drop this dead weight. Trust me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, its true what you are saying! What shall I say though when he comes to me again? I can't be ruse and tell him to bug off, it would be to rude for me. xD
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reader, bardia +, writes (25 February 2012):
I would say a resounding YES! You fill his bored & lonely void during the times HE wants to communicate with you. But he doesn't do anything for you. I just dumped a jerk like that. We are not here for their pleasure or whimsy. If he's serious, he'll make the effort for you. I've already found someone who does just that-it's so overwhelming to have someone this interested & caring & thoughtful tissues me after the hell of a "relationship" I just came out of. I'd say just ignore any further communication with this user, because that's what he is & that's what he does. You're so very young. Don't get hung up on a worthless user like this. Hold out for someone who will treat you as you would treat them.
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reader, fullmetal_heart  +, writes (25 February 2012):
 if a guy really likes a girl,he would definitely reply to almost all the text that girl sent him,and most likely he will chat or exchange text only with the girl he likes. i am a guy and i do the same. observe his gestures for some time. it seems like he doesnot feel the same as u do...
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