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41-50,
*ichgurl
writes:Am I bi, gay, or tg? Should I try sex with a guy? When I was 10 yrs old I started cross dressing. I just saw my sisters clothes and wondered what it would be like to wear it - turned out I liked it. I stopped for over 6 yrs than started again a few times and then started a few times and then stopped and got married(lasted 11 years). I started dressing the last few years of the marriage. I stopped and started up 5 yrs later. I now find myself lasering all my hair and a desire to be a girl but I still love women but also find myself wanting to have full blown sex with a guy. I only find the real hot guys as attractive. I met a guy online and had a good first date(in girl mode). I was really aroused during the date and I know a 2nd date he wants sex. I was nervous about the first time and all should I go forward? Will I be messed up mentally if I find I dont like it? Reply to this Question
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reader, vanessa-tgirl +, writes (24 March 2010):
From one transgender person to another potential transgendered person:1. You're not married right now are you? 1.5. If you like guys and girls you're definitely at least bi. That's cool. A lot of transpeople are; I guess it comes with the territory.2. If you cross-dress all the time and you like it but it's not enough, you're probably transgender! Awesome! 3. You should try to find a gender therapist - not a regular one, but a gender therapist who will help you figure out where to go from here. You can easily do things like cross-dress, grow out your hair, laser your facial hair, etc without any ill side effects. Worse case scenario, you can't shave anymore... big deal. No one enjoys shaving anyway. And women don't shave. Well, most don't. So find a gender therapist, and if you think transitioning is right for you, he/she will refer you to a doctor and4. you can start hormones. 5. If you don't need to transition, don't. It's very difficult. If you have to to be comfortable, do it!
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (6 March 2010):
 so man you should try sex with him cause he wanted that and see with whom you feel so good is it girls or boys later you'll find out who you are and if you find out that you like women and regret for sleeping with a boy try to forget it and consider it like you were drunk than move on in your life .....good luck man
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