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writes: well i feel like an idiot for asking this just because it's probably nothing but i'd like to know regardless...so anyway here's my question, so i kind of have a crush on my teacher, he's in his 20's but literally passes as a student. he's adorable and has the most charming humor, i've got to say even before i had a crush on him he has to be the best teacher i've had, thanks to him i have an A average and understand all the material. but what i'm wondering is if he may be attracted to me at all? what he does to make me think this is him acting literally like a high school student does most of the typical boy crushy things; he looks me straight in the eye all the time, he walks to some classes with me because he teaches some classes near mine and when he walks with me he's always really close to me. in class he always picks me to answer things and when he does its usually just me and him talking about things and he playfully makes jokes with me, i don't think any of my classmates find it weird because he's basically just like a smarter one of us but he always makes sure that i'm doing well and looks at me and smiles a lot. he always notices how i look and sometimes he stares at my legs and chest.. thats a bit awkward but a lot of people do that by the way i'm actually really religious an show like no skin at all, i just like wearing skinny jeans and my chest is just my chest. but in a nutshell he's always really charming towards me when we talk and he's adorable do you think he could be attracted? i'd love to know? even if its nothing its no biggie, either way i'd never do anything like that, jail bait is jail bait sorry if this is a bit overwritten
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): thank you for answering honestly, i enjoy the feedback and am happy to know its nothing, otherwise i'd be a bit creeped out after all he is my teacher
thanks (:
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 You are looking at him through rose tinted glasses and everything about him is sweet and fragrant.
Teachers are being trained to watch out for such love traps.They are just being decent, friendly and helpful and this could be misunderstood by the students.
With their heavy teaching workloads, they don't have to time to think about romance and they are pretty aware of the school regulations. Relationship with students are forbidden.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 March 2010):
He is a teacher, you are a student. That's it. Of course if you like him you'll notice things. But none of those you've mentioned mean anything. Wisely you've seen nothing can happen anyway. So enjoy your crush on him, but don't think there is anything in it from his side, because there's not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): I have a similar kind of teacher, pretty much the same in fact.
We have jokes as a class with him and some jokes are between just me and him.
To be honest, I think some of this is just "innocent" teacher flirting, they do it to make sure you're still interested in learning. Some of it I think is you wishing lol. Not to be mean or anything.
I wouldn't get any ideas about him, its okay to fancy your teacher, plenty of girls do. He knows the rules that he has to stick to and to be honest if he's staring at you in certain places then I'd think he was a bit of a pervert. Remember, have fun but be careful!
P.s. No girl wants to be told that she can't love or fancy a teacher, it doesn't help, so I tried not to say it :)
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