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writes: i have been married for 20 years now. i find that i now like to masturbate watching lesbian porn. i especially like seeing another woman licking another woman's pantiei. when my husband and i watch lesbian porn together I want him to give me oral sex while watching. i fantasize that a woman is giving me oral sex. does this make me a lesbian? I orgasm so fast watching lesbian porn. I also like seeing woman's panties while they are wearing skirts and sitting down. i do not think i am a lesbian but i have to wonder.
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reader, MsSadie  +, writes (26 July 2013):
 Nope.
You can do a quick search online to find articles that will give you an idea of what your favorite kind of porn says about you. If I recall correctly, being into lesbian porn as a straight woman has something to do with craving sensuality and passion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2013): I am a straight woman in a committed relationship. I've only ever been with men, only ever WANTED to be with men, and my sex life with the guy I'm with is terrific.
I also happen to watch a variety of "alternative" porn... gay, lesbian, group sex, DP, you name it.
Most of these acts are things I have NO interest in trying in real life. I think that variety is part of what makes them easy to get off to.
Watching lesbian porn does not make you a lesbian. Wanting to have intercourse with women ONLY makes you a lesbian. Otherwise you're either straight and open-minded in what turns you on (like myself and some of the other women who have posted) or bi/bi-curious.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (26 July 2013):
 I don't think it makes you a lesbian, I think it just means it feels more erotic and "real" then the standard man/woman porn.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (26 July 2013):
 Hey, I'm a married woman and like gay porn, and I am pretty positive that I am not a gay man. At least last I checked.
Watching lesbian porn does not make you a lesbian. You are only a lesbian if you want to be exclusively with women for the rest of your life.
Maybe you're just curious. I just answered someone else's sexuality question with talk of a continuum. Look at sexuality as if it is on a continuum from 1-10, 1 being 100% straight, 5 being 100% bisexual and 10 being 100% gay/lesbian. Anybody can fall anywhere on that scale. Could be that you're finding that you are not exactly a 1, maybe you're more like a 3.
Maybe you're getting a little sexually curious, and that is perfectly fine. Maybe it's time to spice things up with your fella?
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2013): DOESNOT make you lesbian, its normal.
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