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After I orgasm my boyfriend cant keep touching me as its unbearable for me, do I have a problem?

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Question - (25 July 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello,

When I am masterbating with my boyfriend and he is rubbing my clit or going down on me it feels great and I can cum...

But the problem is I can cum then it is unbearable to have him keep touching my clit, like I can't take it anymore~ It feels so great to reach orgasm and I want to keep going but literally can't..

Do I have a problem?

I am a virgin btw if that makes any difference but have been masterbating and reaching orgasm for years, but before having a bf that was so good at making me feel good, i never really wanted to keep going. But now I do, I can't.

Any opinions/ advice would be good thanks

Ren-

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (26 July 2011):

DoubleM agony auntThree previous responses are correct - just wait awhile. Orgasms for both men and women can leave our primary sex parts (glans or clitoris) a bit too sensitive for any immediate stimulus, but can recover after a break (especially for women).

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2011):

it;s normal!! just cool off for a bit.. then try again if you like. x

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A female reader, ayeshaH United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2011):

dont worry you are totally normally.

exact same for me. its too sensititive to touch straight after the orgasm.

like doublejack says, give it a couple of minutes and then you should be able to keep going.

xx.

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A male reader, doublejack United States +, writes (25 July 2011):

In my experience, this is pretty normal. Upon achieving an orgasm, the clitoris becomes so sensitive for some women that further stimulation is unbearable. It is likely that if you give it a break for a few minutes, you'll be able to resume and continue on possibly to the point of having a second orgasm.

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