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A girl I had sex with is pregnant.

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Question - (27 September 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2012)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Girl i know is pregnant?

well there is this girl that i slept with on aug 27, i(A) did not ejactulate in her at all, she told me that she slept with another guy (B) in the same week which was on august 29 and 30, comes to find out on that she is pregnant on sept 21, she said that she is 5 weeks pregnant on sept 21, she told me that guy (B) ejactulated in her on both nights of august 29 and the 30th) and as well that she told that guy (B) that he is the father and that she knows its guy (B) baby. does that mean that guy B is the most likely the father?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (28 September 2012):

Honeypie agony aunt*********does that mean that guy B is the most likely the father?*********

No.

That is the simple answer. It all depends on when she ovulated, not just when sperm was in/near her vagina.

If she keep the baby the only way you will know 100% is by doing a DNA test.

I truly hope you learned your lesson and start taking responsibility for having sex. USE a condom EVERY time.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2012):

Get a DNA test before you do anything else. That's the only way to be sure whether the baby is yours or not. If not, learn from this. If it is, then get the cheque book ready, and also learn from this.

DNA test.

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A female reader, Candid Cally United States +, writes (27 September 2012):

A pregnancy happens after a sperm from a man combines with an egg from the woman and cell division then uterine implantation occurs.

Sperm is mostly in the ejaculatory fluid. If you did not ejaculate inside her, it is probably not yours; HOWEVER, if you had intercourse and did not use protection, there is a remote possibility that (especially if you ejaculated prior to intercourse...like if you came from oral sex first) that it could be yours.

Only a paternity test after the child is born will tell you with certainty whether it is yours or not.

In the future, please use a condom. It will help protect you from STIs and from getting women pregnant.

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