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writes: I have been in a relationship for 2 years we have had alot of ups and downs and my family don't like the fact that I am still with him. At the moment I own my own house and he lives with me, I have recently found out I'm 7 weeks pregnant, I should be thrilled I'm 29 and I feel its about time the problem I have is I'm not sure if my partner is right for me, I don't like his friends they all get up to things I hate, my boyfriend is also a big flirt and the types of girls his maets get round with you could never trust (they are not my mates!) we come from very different backgrounds!I do love him but sometimes I don't like him he can be very loud and very embarassing when we are out he really shows off but when we're on oyr own he's lovely! I know he loves me and trys but I'm not sure its enough.To add to my problems I don't think my family will be very happy although I know his will be very happy, my family think I could do better, I work for my dad (no-one knows I'm pregant apart from my sister and my boyfriend) and my work colleague is also pregnant she is a few weeks ahead of me and all I hear is all about how great and happy she is and I've seen the scan pictures!I just don't know if having this baby is a good idea, I'm worried I'll lose alot of my self, I don't know what to do please help.I look forward to hearing from youGina
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reader, Thachorie +, writes (2 August 2006):
 WOAH wait a minute, i had the same problem but my boyfrineds freinds didnt like me an di didnt like them it resulted in us splitting up for about 3 months when he found out i was pregnant we got back together and he calmed dwn alot, you should never under estimate the power of a wake up call!!! If he already knows and is still acting like tis then give him a few weeks and the reality of having to grow up will kick in and he will be at your feet!!!
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