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writes:I am 23 year old boy from Berlin. I dated this girl from United States when i was like 18, she was actually my first love. It went actually pretty well until the time came when she had to return back to her country and we got separated. I missed her like for long time. We chatted and stuffs but it faded away. Then at the highschool i met this another girl, very polite and pretty from Lithuania, she was simple,charming and awesomely caring. We dated and one day i told her that i loved her and she smiled and told me how can i say no to you. You are very great guy. I was happy. It was a compliment. We went well for 9 months until she went to lithuania as well. Then i was like broke. Felt as if the world has ended. Then after 3 months i met this girl, at my university. We never actually said we love each other, because we were like same, not romantic and honestly i am like awesomely awkward guy. I might be romantic inside but i feel that i cant show off in fornt of the world, like people do in movies lol. So yeah,I transferred my university to berlin and we were far, it went out normal for sometime, student life no money :s we got far and far and finally ended so after 4 months recently i met this erasmus student in club from france, french girl very pretty, we went out well but like after two weeks she told me, she needs time and shes in new country. I said no problem mademoiselle please take your time. So the problem is now, The very first love , the girl from usa came to berlin, girl from lithuania came to berlin and french girl is still there, my ex from other city came to me and we all met at the cafeteria at university. I was in love with all. They all talk to me like they all still love me. Its kind of awkward what i should do because i am single and to be honest they are all very pretty and nice people? If i go out with one, others will be like really broken. I am not that harse to break anyones heart .
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 1. move on different circles.
2. Never let them to see each other. (ShXX you did it)
Desition:
3. Choose the one with bigger boobs and better ass (joke)
3. Choose the one that makes you more happy.
3. Choose the one that stays there.
4. Breake politely with the other girls.
4. Start a long distance relations with the ones that goes back..
4. Try to keep a nice friendship based on the fact that they were away and you are single.
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reader, BerlinsLoveGuru +, writes (17 November 2010):
BerlinsLoveGuru is verified as being by the original poster of the question @ TimmD thats a very nice answer you gave me. Thank you. They are here for quite sometime For example , girl from United states will be staying here for atleast 3 years. Lithuania :3 years or more . French : not really into a contact, perhaps 1 year , German girl forever lol haha. But like i said they are all like gorgeous ladies, great ladies and all single and love me so i am the one to decide whom to choose. Yeah kind of like every men's dream :)
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (17 November 2010):
 Well, which out of all of those are most likely to go back home again? Are they all staying permanently? My suggestion is to take your time and don't rush into anything. You can be honest with them all that you miss them all and were broken hearted from all of them. You don't want to rush in and get heart again. At the same time you want them to know you are interested in them too.
So essentially, you want them to chase after you. That's ever guy's dream. lol
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