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writes: how far should i go with my bf....(im 13)me and my bf have been going out for a few months and are best friends. We always talk about things we want to do....but im not sure how far we should actiucaly go (not sex!!!!)....becasue were only 13 im not sure how far we should go........i mean weve almost gone to seccond base (feeling up) he hasent felt me up.....but hes felt my boobs many times before....and i want to go a bit farther.....but i dont no how far to go!
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (28 May 2006):
 Hi,
At 13 sex shouldnt even be thought of! Gosh when I was that age, kissing was considered in some cases naughty! lol... not that im that old! lol Anyway, kissing and cuddling shoud be about the extent of what happens, you cant really have grown up feelings at this age no matter what you might think. You need to keep your youth and grow up in your own time, sex should be the last thing you are thinking about. There is no rush to act or become adult this will happen as you grow up. Keep things simple, date and hold hands kiss if you feel like it, but your more meaningful relatioships will form later on in life.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2006): Focus on school and not boys. Why do you want to know how far to go being as you have already gone too far- allowing someone to feel you up. Be a responsible teenager. You say that you do not want to have sex- then DON'T and believe me "feeling up" is not innocent and it may or usually does end up in some form of sexual activity. SO STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2006): this is the person who wrote this q
thanks!! yah that really helped!! thanks!!
i dont think i will do the head, hand, or blowjobs
but the rest is awosme help!! thanks!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2006): hi, im 14 and have had a boyfriend for a couple years and since im about the same age i think i could be of some help.. maybee. some suggestions i can think of would be:
feeling up, or down, or both, under clothes or over top,
i personaly dont do these things but i dont no what your like so um.. head or blowjobs?
um uinno crap like that
post an answer on yours again after you read this to let me no if i helped if i was not what you were looking for
haha ok take care, XO(L)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): ok this is me the person who asked this question!!
I DONT WANT TO HAVE SEX!!!!!!!
martini.........im not niki....who ever that is!!
what are some things other then sex that is more then making out, hugging, kissing etc. that me and my bf could do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): Niki? I was going to ask if that was you in the other thread, but yeah...
You know, you don't have to do anything you don't want to - at ANY age. Just because Jon, Joe, James, and Sandra, Sara, Sharon are having sex, doesn't mean you have to have sex. If you feel like having a few kisses here and there, a hug now and then, or hold hands, etc, that's cool too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): i am the person who asked the question........i dont want to have sex!!!!!!!! im not ready for that!!!!!! and im way to young!!!!!!! i was more or less wondering how far should i go BEFORE sex!! cause i dont want to have sex...but i still love my bf alot.......what are some things i can do that arnt sex.....that would work for a 13 year old!?!?
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reader, bonym +, writes (27 May 2006):
 My dear if you have to question how far to go then it clearly indicates to me that you are not physically nor emotionally mature for sex. Sex isnt just a case of two people having some really intimate fun, my dear there ar responsibilities with having sex. For example of course you know that sex may lead to children and I am sure at your tender age you dont as yet want kids so there is the issue of protection, ie. condoms, the Pill, etc etc. Then there is the issue of having sex so young, my dear if you could only speak to some people I know of who regret having sex young, you wil be amazed. Having sex so young can ebe very damaging on your body. I am not trying to scare you, you can read the books for yourself. My dear you are very young, dont do something you may later regret. I dont believe you are ready for sex, just yet. Take care. xXx
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