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writes:Hi everyone, I'm probably asking the most unaswerable question! Why are guys so hard to understand????I've been seeing a guy for a few months and we have a great time together. But he is moving away soon for a job opportunity. I didn't realise how much I like him until he told me he was leaving last Friday. Now I'm a blubbering mess and have barely heard from him. So I text him today and asked him what does he wanna do about us now that he is moving. He text back saying he hadn't even thought about it!!! He is a very laid back guy and I know he cares about me a lot. During the conversation last Friday he told me he is very sad about moving away from me but hopes I will visit often so I presumed he wanted to try the long distance thing. I know he is crazy busy at the minute but how can he not have even thought about it? It's wrecking my head!
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reader, Everlasting Love  +, writes (16 August 2007):
why go through all the trouble to see this guy who presumably busy and off doing his business. If i were you I'd start looking for another that doesn't necessarily mean your going to be dating just you know... scope out for another. guys are hard to understand because just as heartbroken said, we don't like showing how we really feel. but in consideration if he truly had feelings for you, he'd come see you ;)
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reader, heartbrokenxx +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Most guys, well a majority of guys think logically ...they feel that if they let us know how they feel they are weak. whereas girls think emotionally and with their heart, therefore we are outspoken and easier to understand ...
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 It's a well known fact that women and men speak in different ways, and that's why we men find it so difficult to understand women, and women have difficulty understanding us. But I must add that a great deal of confusion sets in when a person loves someone else, as love numbs your senses and makes you see, hear and understand things the way you'd rather see, hear and understand them.
I think this guy wasn't serious about you, and he thought you weren't serious about him, either. You say you know how much you like him until the moment he told you he was leaving; maybe he perceived this?
I could be wrong, but I think he told you about visiting and the like just to be kind.
I'm afraid this thing is pretty much over.
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