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writes:I'm 19 this year, never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never had sex, nothing. And most of you will understand that at this age, I'm pretty much a walking hormone. I'm gonna be honest and say that I'm horny 70-80% of the time and have a lot of sexual cravings. But don't worry because I don't think I'd be having sex anytime soon considering I'm still single and I will definitely NOT lose my virginity to ANY guy. Here comes the important part. I recently started masturbating regularly last 4 months. Initially, I did it about 3 times or so every week without looking at porn. But in the last 2 months, I think I've become very hooked on masturbating. I started to look at porn and I masturbate on a daily basis. My question is am I abnormal for masturbating so much? Most guys I talk to only do it about 2/3 times a week and here I am, getting off everyday.Thanks for reading and advising and have a good day.
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reader, Jahan5000  +, writes (18 August 2012):
Ofcourse,its not normal if it hampers ur regular daily life activities
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 July 2012):
 I used to at a younger age do it twice a day....
even at 52 in an active relationship I can still manage to masturbate three or 4 times a week....
you sound normal to me as long as your daily life (work, school, friends, exercise etc) is not being neglected.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (8 July 2012):
 I think you are normal and I am glad you are not going out and having sex with multiple partners to satisfy your needs. I have always been more passionate than the men I have been with and have had to maturbate to help me along. With the exception of one of the men who came close to matching me sexually. When I was with my last boyfriend who was a very serious relationship, we would have sex and then I would want it two or three more times, so I would have to masturbate unless he was up for it.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (8 July 2012):
We don’t often have people wish us a good day, so thank you.
There isn’t really a norm when it comes to the frequency of masturbation. The guys you have spoken to may do it a few times a week but there are men who masturbate daily, whilst some masturbate much less frequently. The general answer to whether there’s a problem or not is to think about whether your masturbation is getting in the way of other aspects of your life. If it starts interfering with the rest of your life then yes, there’s an issue. But if not, it’s fine. You might find that, over time, the frequency with which you masturbate changes. It might also decrease when you become sexually active. Looking at porn less (or not at all) might make you want to masturbate less often. But you don’t have to worry about your current level of masturbation unless you feel it’s interfering with your life. Medically, you’re not abnormal.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (8 July 2012):
 You have nothing to worry about at all, masturbating is completely normal.
The people you spoke with have probabaly lied to you, masturbation seems STILL to be quite a taboo subject, especially for girls.
Most guys I know masturbate very often, some of the women I have known masturbate morning and night. It is very normal and common.
I am not too keen on porn, but whatever it takes to get you off use it, that your personal orgasmic trigger. Again, whatever you use is perfectly normal.
I know a woman in her late thirties who thinks about her Rampant Rabbit all day long, and cant wait to get home to it. I know several women a little older who cannot have orgasms at all.
Everyone is different.
So enjoy the moment, and when you get your first boyfriend, you will know to direct him in how to please you.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (8 July 2012):
 It's not so much a matter of normal or not as the fact that you sound like you've become compulsive about it. Everyone gets horny, but when you feel a need to masturbate, especially to porn, there can be a problem. It can make it hard for you to be with a real person later in life and make it impossible for you to get off without that kind of stimulation.
Why not try cutting the porn out and cutting back on masturbating?
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