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writes:I've been on 3 dates w this guy I've known for 3 mo.he msgs randomly to say hello and such.he flirts with me a lot.a lot of talk but in person he's a gentleman(he's incredibly naughty through txt). I assumed from his inconsistency and naughty txting that he's interested in 1 thing.he claims that's not all he's interested in. Unfortunately seeing him makes me want to melt(when I met him I instantly wanted to have him but I don't have sex or fool around w someone I don't know or that I'm not in in a relationship w.my attraction for him is through the roof, though I express it only through txt.we discussed fooling around n said we would next time we saw each other.we got together n we ended up hanging w his roommates instead of our "plan". When finally alone, we kissed n one thing lead to another...so we went upstairs and had some foreplay fun. I guess I figured if I fooled around w him n got it out of the way that I - A) would be able to relax n know him more instead of focusing on his sexiness and B) see if he's full of crap - about wanting more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh im not tryin to make him fall in love w/ me.
i def dont plan on having sex with him anyway..
i guess i was just wondering why someone would act that way. alot of talk and no action..i think if u want sex.. say so,stick to it dont be retarded and back down in person.(i wasnt done writing my entry but accidentally sent it)i guess i typed this q up cos my hamster wheel was turning lol.I unfortunately think alot.After we were intimate.. he made it seem like we'd see each other alot..and spent a long time just lookin into my eyes n rubbing my back. i thought it was nice but at the same time was like..what is he doing?
I feel sort of bad for fooling around w/ him cos its not my style and yet semi relieved.as odd as that sounds.
My heart is definitely not hurt.I went into everything w/ him - not caring the outcome.. i just like discussing/getting opinions which is the reason for the post.:) thanks for replying.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 January 2010):
Seems to me he's interested in one thing only. Where are the dates, where is the 'getting to know each other'. You might be better moving on now before you end up hurt.
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reader, LibertarianLou +, writes (27 January 2010):
If he's very different in person to in text he's probably dishonest or cowardly or both.
Just buy a good vibrator and think about him at home. Safer, no emotional risk, no trust involved, and probably a lot more fun.
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