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I have feelings for my boyfriend's best friend who is also my ex!

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Question - (3 December 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

so me and my boyfriend,vince have been dating for almost 3 weeks now, but i'm starting to fall for his best friend,zack! however, this isn't the only problem... my boyfriends best friend is also my ex-boyfriend! Me zack (my ex-boyfriend) dated for over 4 months, and really had something special. zack also feels the same way i feel, but i also have feelings for vince! what should i do?!

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (3 December 2012):

Anonymous 123 agony auntLeave them both alone and break up with Vince. You don't love either of them. You broke up with Zach for a reason but now you say you have feelings for him while being with someone else. You cant be this indecisive and keep playing with people's feelings.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (3 December 2012):

janniepeg agony auntIt's very challenging for Zack and Vince to be friends. I wonder how they do it. Since you didn't have long relationships with either one, your feelings couldn't be that strong. You are heading towards a triangular mess, more complicated because the two men are friends also. Vince sounds like a rebound guy. Going back to Zack won't make sense because you like Vince at the same time. You will always be torn between the two since three of you will be somewhat close together. You have to step back and really think about what you want.

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