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What's it like to have a girlfriend/wife who's a gamer?

Q.   Gamer Guys: What's it like to have a gamer as a girlfriend/wife? Is it annoying, fun, cool, make it a happy relationship, causes fights, ect? I do think that girl gamer's are really hot. Because I'm a huge gamer and for years I've wanting to have ...

A.   4 February 2012: heya well my bf and I bought a wii and xbox we do play all the time we either play against each other or were a tag team we do have great fun we have kinect for xbox and also band hero, me personally i cant sing but on the wkends we do have a few ... (read in full...)

Is boarding school the right thing in this circumstance?

Q.   Recently my wife and eldest daughter died in a car crash and i was left on my own with a 14 yr old daughter. her mum used to work at her current school and her sister went to the sixth form there and shes told me that she dosent want to go there ...

A.   25 November 2011: oh god i no how you's must be feeling i lost my mam this year my dad was left with my little sister whose 15, i think your daughter has the right idea in mind if she would like to go to boarding school let her it will cost a lot of money let her ... (read in full...)

My partner's addiction is getting in the way of his providing for the family

Q.   Hi! I need some good solid advicw! Me and my partner have been together nearly 7 years we have 2 young kids! Im not working at the minute as i wanna stay at home and look after my chuldren properly! My partner tried starting up his own cleaning ...

A.   21 November 2011: he can give it up if he wants to i use to smoke it smoked it for a good 8 years i havent touched it in bout 1 year give him an ultimatum the weed or his family ... (read in full...)

Are there engagement rings for men?

Q.   hello everyone seen as its a leap year next year I am planning on proposing to my bf of 2 years it will also be his birthday a few days later I'm just wondering if there are engagement rings for men. thanks all ...

A.   21 November 2011: thanks everyone I have an idea now I'm going to make some cupcakes in a heart shape and put icing on them saying marry me I think I'll get him some good cuff-links too. you's were all so helpful thank you. ... (read in full...)

He chose to spend our 1 year 10 month anniversary with his college friends!

Q.   Ok I know this sounds a bit stupid but yesterday was our year and ten months anniversarie but he kept telling me last week that he was gonna surprise me wit breaking Dawn tickets and so I was just thinking it comes out Friday it's our day Friday ...

A.   19 November 2011: omg are you really been seriously its only 1 year and 10 months men always forget little things like this i would probably understand if it was your 1st or 2nd anniversary but come on now ... (read in full...)

Finding a unique name for a baby boy

Q.   Dear all...hope you all are fit and fine. I needed you guys help. My sis has just given birth to a baby boy and we are looking for a sweet unique name starting with either A or S. Can you all please suggest some unique names....Thank you...

A.   29 August 2011: Alex, Sean, Samson, Ajax... (read in full...)

Embarrassed to admit to my friends that I'm into online dating!

Q.   I have a question for those who have successfully used online dating and have found great matches and/or partners. I'm only 20, but finding boyfriends has always been difficult for me for a number of reasons, which I'll spare you from reading. On...

A.   13 June 2011: heya, I don't think there's anything wrong with internet dating, I think if you comfortable enough with it then go with it. I met my current boyfriend in a similar situation, I didn't meet him on a dating site but on an actual social network called ... (read in full...)

Will it hurt when they remove it?

Q.   I'm getting the mirena coil taken out on Thursday after months of problems with it can anyone tell me if it hurts. thank you...

A.   12 May 2011: hey i got it out today without a problem didnt hurt one bit ... (read in full...)

Will it hurt when they remove it?

Q.   I'm getting the mirena coil taken out on Thursday after months of problems with it can anyone tell me if it hurts. thank you...

A.   11 May 2011: Hey Dear Mandy i was just wondering if a doctor will still take it out while your on a perios as i got mine today and i'm due to get it out tomorrow... (read in full...)

After 6 years my son's father wants to be in his life!

Q.   I got pregnant at 15 to a man that was married, at the time I didn't know, when I found I finished it, well I had my baby when I was 16, father didn't want any contact whatsoever, well 6 years down the line I got a message of him trough facebook ...

A.   2 May 2011: hey everyone thanks so much for your opinions, i think i'm going to wait until my son is old enough to make that decision for himself, i know that his father wont always be around as he's always in and out of prison, after i had my son i got a call ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I might be pregnant and I'm scared to tell my parents!

Q.   Hi, Im 14 years old and I have a boyfriend that is 16. Me and him had sex about a monto get h ago and I was supossed to get my period a week ago but it hasnt come. Im afraid I might be pregnant. We used a condom, but it broke. I dont know how to t...

A.   24 April 2011: hello, i became pregnant when i was 15, the easiest way i found that i could say what i wanted to say was written my parents a letter i found that i could write down things that i wouldn't be able to say to them face to face. i hope this helps ... (read in full...)

Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?

Q.   what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ...

A.   14 April 2011: you may bleed a little bit thats how i new i popped mine ... (read in full...)

Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?

Q.   what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ...

A.   13 April 2011: when my cherry was popped i just felt i little pain i said ouch lol but it was just for a few seconds ... (read in full...)

Do genuine relationships develop from internet dating or is it just a game?

Q.   I joined an internet dating site. Some people said it’s worth a go, a lot of people warned me off, and told me there are a lot of users and losers out there. I met a guy, he was nice (although he seemed to have dated a lot of women via internet...

A.   13 April 2011: hello, well I was on this website called tagged its not technically a dating site but a lot of people are on it for that, well I start writing to this 1 bloke we exchanged numbers and started to text each other well I'm happy to say that we've had ... (read in full...)

Can you be fingered with trousers on?

Q.   my boyfriend wants to finger me, and i want him too but i hate the look of my vagina, i get spots on it and marks when i shave, i hate it, can you be fingered with trousers on?!! ...

A.   10 April 2011: yes you can get fingered with trousers on, wear loose trousers so its easier for him to put his hand down, i am the same as you when i shave i do get spots and,sometimes i do get a bit itchy but if your boyfriend loves you enough he wont mind that, ... (read in full...)

Am I ready for this baby?

Q.   im pregnate and dont know if im ready for this baby.my boyfriend wants the baby but im not sure if i do. we have known each other for two years but we have only gone out for 2 months.i think we are to young for this baby.i have only told my best ...

A.   22 January 2011: i am so happy to hear that you've decided to keep your baby, i hope you baby brings you so much happiness as my son has done the same ... (read in full...)

Am I ready for this baby?

Q.   im pregnate and dont know if im ready for this baby.my boyfriend wants the baby but im not sure if i do. we have known each other for two years but we have only gone out for 2 months.i think we are to young for this baby.i have only told my best ...

A.   9 December 2010: i fell pregnant when i was 15, i was afraid of what people might say to me i hid it from everyone until i was 5 months gone, i new i didnt want to have an abortion or give him away i wouldnt be able for it wen the time came to give him away, when i ... (read in full...)

Is it normal not to want to hold a baby?

Q.   My cousin has just had a lovely baby boy and he is absolutely gorgeous, but when i went to see her today i found myself refusing to have a hold of him. Up until actually arriving at the maternity ward, i was eager to have a hold but when it came to ...

A.   2 December 2010: when i was pregnant a girl i new had a baby a few wks before i had my son i went to see her in hospital i was terrified to hold her son, any of my friends that had babies i was terrified to hold their babies too, but when i had my own its was ... (read in full...)

I feel like us not arguing it unhealthy!

Q.   Hi! I'm a new user though I've been reading for a while and I've decided to ask an for an opinion. It's simple really :) Let me start out that my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, are very close emotionally, and confide in each ...

A.   11 November 2010: i'm with my boyfriend just over a year, we had our first argument 2 months ago, a few months back i wrote on this the same question your asking now and i got back replys saying my relationship is pretty healthy, you time will come for you's to have ... (read in full...)

Why is it so difficult to find a really nice and honest man?

Q.   I'm a 39 year old single mom with 2 kids. I've been single for almost 4 years now. Of course my kids mean the whole world to me, but at times I do need someone for intimate moments, to share the good and bad times together, to talk about everything ...

A.   1 November 2010: i was a single mom of 1 up until a year ago i was on this social network site called tagged for ages, i started chatting to this guy for wks, i gave him my number didnt no whether he was going to text back or not but to my surprise he did i told him ... (read in full...)

One Year Anniversary Present?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are going to make a year in a month.. what is a great present for our aniversary? ...

A.   5 October 2010: it will be my 1st yr anniversary with my bf this month haha i got him a phone for 300 euro were going to paris to and i got him a new wallet and some clothes good luck picking out a present ... (read in full...)

What was your most embarrassing moment while on a date?

Q.   What was the your most embarassing moment wile on a date? :)...

A.   1 October 2010: my most embarrassing moment was when i was wit my bf we were wit each other about 2 months then and we were in his car parked up an we started getting intimate we were in the middle of having sex and the police turned up i was mortified :)... (read in full...)

Why do I bite and scratch during intercourse?

Q.   During sex, I tend to bite my boyfriend's neck and dig my nails into his back. Is there a deeper meaning into what we do to our partners during intercourse, or is it just us reacting to being caught up in the moment?...

A.   24 September 2010: i tend to do that aswel when i'm doing it with my bf but he likes it he doesnt like wen i leave marks on his neck so i now tend to bite his chest or sumthin like that he gets turned on more when i do it, ask him if he likes it and if he does i dont ... (read in full...)

Not sure how guy I'm dating is going to feel about my daughter

Q.   Ive been talking too this guy for about 2 years and we have been dating and seeing each other regularly for about 8 months. I have a 2 year old daughter, who he has never meet and really wants too but im scared as im not sure kids is what he really ...

A.   22 September 2010: i have a son whose 5 yrs old, i'm with my bf a year now i was apprehensive about him meeting my son at first but after they did meet it was great my son loves him gets on great wit him, he also has a son of his own but only gets to see him 2 maybe 3 ... (read in full...)

I don't like being a mum... I want all my freedom back!!!

Q.   Hey guys. Thanks for looking at my dilemma! And I will keep it short.,.. Basically, I'm 27 years old, single mum to a beautiful 5 month old boy. The father is my ex, we broke up when I was pregnant, he is still around for our son and is a great d...

A.   18 September 2010: hello, i got pregnant when i was 15 16 when i had my son he is now 5 and a half, i love him with all my heart i seriously wouldn't change him for the world, when i found out i was pregnant i didnt tel anyone til i was 5 months gone, i felt ashamed ... (read in full...)

Is having lasting pain from losing my virginity normal?

Q.   Me and a guy i know were messing around earlier yesterday and ending up "doing things". I was a virgin until he put his penis inside me. I told him to stop so he did but then he put it back in and we had sex but it was only about a minute ...

A.   2 September 2010: you should of went to get the morning after pill i hope your not pregnant after that i no it wasn't proper but you can still get pregnant even if it was only in for 1 min... (read in full...)

How do I make it the least painful for her?

Q.   ok, so me and my girlfriend have been going out since may, and we've always had this problem where we want to wait till her birthday before we sleep together, but no matter how hard we try, we always end up in a possition were if we didnt stop the...

A.   2 September 2010: hello, when it was my first time i was on my period it wasn't sore at all, my second time doing it was when i really lost my virginity it hurt just a little bit not that much i think if you's really want to do it go for it, but her first prop... (read in full...)

How can I cheer him up?

Q.   I'm 21, and my guy is in a deep depression, he's like sad all day, he's really hardworking though, but always sad, he isn't speak much, isn't his regular joker self, and is barely smiling. He's 30 by the way, and I met him online, I'm not ...

A.   28 August 2010: hello have you ever stopped and wondered what went on while he was on duty, the things people in the military do see is unreal people dying every day there friends dying, its just awful, have you ever asked him if he has flashbacks or anything from ... (read in full...)

Is this a little odd?

Q.   This isn't really a love question as such, but it involves a girl so I thought this was as good a place to ask it as any. So sometimes I play a particular online game. Not a lot but maybe once or twice a week I will play for a little bit and c...

A.   27 August 2010: hello there, well about 1 year ago i was online and i seen this boy i practically liked i added him as a friend an we started talking for a bit after a while i wrote my number in private mail he lives about a half hour away from me, but he text me t... (read in full...)

What do girls really look for in a man. (honest views only)

Q.   Can I ask a question to the girls in this site and be completly honest. "What do you really lok for in a guy" I always see answers like good listener caring faithfull not cocky class good career prospects But never does "good looks" ev...

A.   29 June 2010: hello i'm a young girl 21 and the boyfriends i've had weren't the best looking i don't go for looks i'd go for someone who can make me laugh who i can relate to and whom i feel so comfortable with, i think your problem is your confidence, when you ... (read in full...)

I found out my dad's a cheat!

Q.   Yesterday i looked at my dad's phone because the last while he's been very moody with me an my mam an other siblings, what i found was heartbreaking he's texting this girl and in the texts she's saying she loves him, i dont know what to do, i cant ...

A.   1 June 2010: well after reading everyones answers i thought about it, i decided i needed to talk to someone about it so i decided to talk to my bf about it after that i felt better i dont feel sad anymore i decided not to say anythin to my dad its upto him to ... (read in full...)

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