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6 May 2007: Yesterday, on May 4, 2007 my friend was killed. She was sitting on a fence at a baseball field when her sister stupidly pushed her over. She landed on her neck and broke her neck. She died at the scene. And now because of her death her twin sister ...

Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??

Q.   What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...

A.   9 February 2008: PERSONALITY!! Like really if i like a guy its becuase of his personality and its just a bonus if hes hot. and like sometimes i like a guy so much even if he isnt terribly good looking to me he is anyway good luck xox... (read in full...)

Should I tell him I like as my friends advised me? I'm 13, he's 27. Worried about ruining our relationship.

Q.   Well for the last 3 months I've been talking to this guy. He's turning 27 soon and I"m only 13. We talk all the time and about last month I started to have feeelings for him. My friends say it's not wrong, but the age differance conserns me. They ...

A.   12 December 2007: You cannot do this. It's your decision but heres my opinion: He is waayyy to old for you. He has a different mind set. He may be ready for things that your not. Plus its illegal and he might even be considered a pedaphile. My advice is not to start... (read in full...)

We have been official for two weeks and he is starting to talk about sex and I am scared.

Q.   I'm 14. I met my boyfriend about 4 months ago and we have liked each other since the night we met. We became official about two weeks ago and i have already given him oral. He is starting to talk about sex and i want to but im scared to. He is ...

A.   3 December 2007: If you know your not ready... and you tell him then if he loves you enough he'll wait. And if he doesn't it would be smart not to give in and dump him. xo... (read in full...)

My best friend has been flirting with me lately and putting his arms around me, what should I do next time he does it?

Q.   my best friend has been flirting with me alot. hes been sitting next to me at lunch, always wants to be by me and stuff like that. then when i was walking in the hall he came up to me and we started talking. then when it got all quite he put his arm ...

A.   25 November 2007: If he puts his arm on your shoulder you hit his waist and do whatever you feel comfortable with, chances are he won't even care.... (read in full...)

Is there a chance of us getting together?

Q.   I have a crush on a boy in the year below me that i have known since nursery. He has always been like a brother to me and he always calls me his 'cousin' or 'god sister' even though are families dont even really know eachother. We used to be best ...

A.   19 November 2007: If anything you being older will attract him to you more. ... (read in full...)

Forbidden or not?

Q.   I am adopted and I was wondering if it would be wrong to date my cousin? I don't think it's incest at all or anything. I really like my cousin. He is a boy. Please help me. Thank you....

A.   18 November 2007: It might cause some issues with your family if they found out, and wouldn't you find it a bit awkward? ... (read in full...)

Why would my friend want to hurt my feelings by telling me others say that I'm smelly?!?

Q.   Hey. I've ben really bothered with this ...i think ive been going crazy just thinking about this.. So my friends calls me up to her and says, "hey..i heard someone talking about you..." and me, hoping it was something good , became all excited....

A.   18 November 2007: She might be telling you this, to make you aware of it. She could be trying to be a good friend and let you know, before more people notice and talk about it. And as for the sweat, they sell clinical strength deodorant without perscription now. ... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!

Q.   Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...

A.   23 July 2007: I think I should moderate for you because I am a creative writer and I can think up proper titles for the articles. And I'm open minded and i visit this site almost everyday. ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and think I masterbate too much! How can I stop?

Q.   Im 17 and like most guys, i masterbate. I started when i was 13 and have dun it at least once a day, sumtimes up to 4 times a day. All i can say is that i have lost all feeling for it and now i do it because i am either bored or just been watchi...

A.   10 May 2007: Yeah your completely normal. But if you do want to stop (not beccause you thinks its dirty) just because you personally want to try taking up sports or hand-releated activities to destract yourself.... (read in full...)

I'm 13 years and smart, does nobody like me?

Q.   I am 13 years old and am one of the smartest girls in my classes. To most guys I'm just a nerd but random people come up to me sometimes to tell me I'm pretty, but this doesn't happen at school. Am I a threat to them, Are the guys that like me ...

A.   10 May 2007: TRUST ME! Somebody likes you. And im smart like you but i have a boyfriend. its all about personality and if the boy is intimidated then hes probally not the sharpest tool in the shed now is he?... (read in full...)

I'm 16, just lost my virginity and now my BF wants me to shave down there!

Q.   hey am 16 and and i just lost it to my b/f who i have been with for about 2 years now and he said he would like me to shave all my hair on my pussy... would it make a diffrence if i did or not?...

A.   10 May 2007: It all depends honey. If you want to go ahead. Dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do. And i agree tell him to do it to!... (read in full...)

I'm pretty and I have a great personality. How do I get the attention of that cute jock?

Q.   how do i get my crush's attention? i mean I'm not ugly and not to be cockey but I've got a great personality. he's a jock and really cute. my cousin told him i liked him and he said since he didn't know me he didn't know if he wanted to date me and ...

A.   10 May 2007: Ok. Heres how you start. A great thing to do is get on the "inside"! Do you have any friends that are friends with him...? If you do let the friend know, that you want the jock to notice you. Once you get in... start talking to the jock. pretend as ... (read in full...)

My teacher kept me in for detention, kissed me and had sex with me on his desk.

Q.   I need urgent help! I'm seeing my teacher during and after school. He gives me detension so I can see him at lunchtime. He's one of the nicest guys I've ever met, so I don't want to end this. The other day at lunch we were kissing and had se...

A.   8 May 2007: Personally i think its wrong enough that you two are having sexual relations. And i strongly advise you not to make a sex tape. Who could find it? Perhaps your parents, teacher's friends, principal... then you could both be in seriuos trouble p... (read in full...)

I'm a 20 year old virgin and my friend said I should just sleep with one of my friends! Is this good advice?

Q.   Last week I finally to open up to my buddy about being a 20 year old virgin. He asked me what I was waiting for and I told him at this stage of my life I want it to be with someone who I trust. Well his advice to me was to just ask one of my ...

A.   6 May 2007: I would say no you shouldnt just sleep with your friend. Sex is supposed to be something that is witht he special person you love... so wait for her...... (read in full...)

Should I continue seeing this guy online? My dad would go mental if he knew!

Q.   I'm 13 turning 14 and he's 18 turning 19. I have known him for a while now then a little later we started dating. Sounds stupid but we met over the internet, and haven't met face to face yet. I love him and trust him, that he's being honest with me. ...

A.   1 May 2007: Honey, you cant always know if he is being honest with you.If he sent you pictures that could be some random guy off google. And your dad has every right to go mental if he knew because this could end up being a VERY dangerous thing. I mean i know ... (read in full...)

He stole from my friend, he lies and I got him fired. Now he wants to date me again. Should I?

Q.   Alright, so i've been single for the past 6months or so and have been quite lonely. Well about a week ago someone from my past came back into my life. Around this time last year, me and my longterm boyfriend were on a seperation. Not a big deal for ...

A.   24 April 2007: no. its as simple as that. If you're looking for trouble then yes. If you;re looking for happiness then you better say no.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is 10 weeks pregnant but still smokes every day and drinks on occasions too.

Q.   I'm totally in love with my partner - I love her more than anything in the world. She is 10 weeks pregnant and I am so happy and excited to be with her. However she continues to have a few drinks a week and I suspect more when I am not around her. ...

A.   23 April 2007: Wow. You should definetly go to the doctor and get somethign to stop the smoking because as we all know it causes premees etc.... And as for the drinking, i dont know what you should do but it needs to stop. Talk it over with her.... (read in full...)

He kissed me and I told him to get off but at first he wouldn't. I don't feel I can trust him anymore. Any advice?

Q.   Im going to make this quick. Theres this guy, Boy we'll call him. Hes much older than me... 4 yrs. Im twelve hes sixteen. We have been freinds forever and I invited him to this chocolate fondue party. He was in my room eating chocolate. Appare...

A.   21 April 2007: Dear Everybody, THANKS! My only complaint is that the female anonymous the one that is talking about how she shoudlnt be talking is getting on my nerves because i didnt say i was dating him. He barged in!! So honey you better shut it before i... (read in full...)

Am I fat? I have bigger measurements than my friends and its bothers me!

Q.   Am I fat? I'm 5'7''. 14 years old and.. Bust-33 Waist-27 1/2 Hips- 39 Thigh- 31 My friends, who look worse than me, have much smaller measurements, and it's getting me down. Please let me know, and be honest! x...

A.   18 April 2007: HONEY PLEASE! You are not fat at all! Dont be so self concious and love yourself! Im around your age and im like you. Your gonna be different then your friends but it shouldnt matter to you or them! xox... (read in full...)

She never told me that she liked my ex, shes now having a fling with him, I'm hurt she never told me before!

Q.   Hi not sure how to handle this situation. I have a really good friend and we are very close lately she has been going through a bad patch with her man and has been messing around with a few different men. But something she told me yesterday has ...

A.   16 April 2007: I think you should talk it over with her tell her hwo you feel. If she really is your best friend she will take your feelings into consideration and try to stop flirting. Good Luck xox... (read in full...)

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