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writes:I'm 13 turning 14 and he's 18 turning 19. I have known him for a while now then a little later we started dating. Sounds stupid but we met over the internet, and haven't met face to face yet. I love him and trust him, that he's being honest with me. But if my father found out I'd be in some much trouble. What should I do?
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reader, sophiie +, writes (13 May 2007):
i strongly advise you not to meet this guy and loose contact with him as he sounds like a peadofile to me!
no matter how much you feel you love him at the end of the day this is only a teenage crush
my friend was in the very same postition as you and she met up with this guy she met off the internet.. and sweety it was not who she thought it was!
she was rapped and this guy who she thought she loved runined her life
DO NOT MEET UP WITH HIM OR SEND HIM ANY PHOTOS OF YOURSELF!!!
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reader, xoTrineyxo +, writes (1 May 2007):
 Honey, you cant always know if he is being honest with you.If he sent you pictures that could be some random guy off google. And your dad has every right to go mental if he knew because this could end up being a VERY dangerous thing. I mean i know its kinda fun talking to somebody that you think loves you and loving him back. But i think if you dont stop and choose to continue you can limit it to just the internet.
P.S. if you didnt already.... try not to send real pictures of yourslef.
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reader, kiddo  +, writes (29 April 2007):
I have been in this situation and things arent what they seem. You will end up getting hurt in the long run. Parents are very good at sensing stuff like this and i can not begin to describe what would happen if they found out. You need to get out of the relationship. It may seem hard but you could meet someone far better who is your own age.
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reader, beautifulllove +, writes (28 April 2007):
 first your father has every right to know and flip and any one can be anyone on the internet he could have told you hes 18 and is in fact in hes 40's and even a picture isnt the best to go by. im not trien to put you down but i dont want you to be one of those girls on a flyer saying missing. even if you have talked to him on the phone, you just never know how some one is intill you know them in person but if he is in fact 18 and is not lien how do you know he'll treat you well? for your age i am concerned for your safety and ish that if you do meet him have him come to you and meet him in a place like the mall or the movies and at least get to know him. love isnt something you can say for sure intill you look into there eyes. like my man even when he would be talking to another person he couldnt ever take eyes off me and i couldnt take off him either but my point is be safe and have fun with life good luck xoxo
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reader, waiting_on_luv  +, writes (28 April 2007):
 Stop seeing him right now, just end it... believe me ive been there.. just think to yourself.. why is this 18/19 year old hitting on me? hes almost 20 im barely over 10... youre starting high school, hes starting university... and plus if you dont want your parents to know, you know your doing something wrong. If you dont want to take this advice then thats fine, but ive been in that exact situation, you talk to them every night, you'll sneak around to see them.. its not good.. that boy should be going out with a girl his own age and not preying on young girls like you! just trust your instinct, if it feels even the slightest bit wrong.. it probably is! if you're not comfortable with telling your dad... think about why that is..
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