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i have no qualifications except for my own personal experiences and despite me being only 16 i have quite a lot of experience. i live in weston super mare in england. what makes me tick is living for the moment and helping people come together. my hero is martin luther king I to want to change the world for the better just like him. Im in a relationship at the moment. but my motto is..... pick up your shit and move along..... which means if u experience something bad you cant dwell on it and be depressed you need to move on

My partner has genital warts..what does this mean for the future?

Q.   My patner and I recently had sex tests as we both wished to have unprotected sex, thankfully my results came back clear but he was diagnosed with HPV (genital warts)From research on the internet I understand that this is a highly contagious ...

A.   21 February 2009: you know he can get rid of them right? you ever heard of gardasil....it protects against the four strains of HPV and you can get rid of them and then get the jab.... (read in full...)

All of a sudden I can't pleasre her anymore?

Q.   Ok, My girlfriend and I were having sex and then all of a sudden things i was doing stopped pleasuring her. even things that used to work before that point. what the hell happened?...

A.   18 February 2009: ok she was faking it and i have forgiven her for it :) but....i need advice on how else i could please her...i have had sex with her in different ways, doggy and missionary, any other positions? i have fingered her and gone down on her but none of ... (read in full...)

He is pressuring me sexually and now I don't want to have sex

Q.   I have been with my partner now for 4 years. Sex was quite normal at the start but it's now becoming a problem in our relationship. We used to make love nearly every day but it's now only about twice a week. I'm the one that doesn't want to make ...

A.   7 January 2008: i think the answer here is blatantly obvious, DONT HAVE SEX THEN, seriously your on here asking what you should do because you dont want sex, THEN DONT HAVE IT OVER... (read in full...)

She's a bit bigger than I thought she would be, and I only half like her. Should I have sex with her and marry her?

Q.   i am unmarried and one girl loves me alot. we become friends through a dating site. but the first day i met her i felt very bad due to the reason she is not so good looking. Actually she is a fat girl and that to, too much. As, such i ignored all ...

A.   7 January 2008: if u dont fully like her dont do it, dont be an ass ok good im glad we understand each other... (read in full...)

She's had sex four times before and I need a virgin. What should I do?

Q.   I have waited all my life to have sex when i am married, with someone who also is a virgin. My fiance has told me that she has had sex before with 4 guys..I don't like this....what should i do? I was always taught sex was a sacred thing and should ...

A.   7 January 2008: dude, dont be an ass, just because you had different plans doesnt mean you should break up with her thats not fair, so shes had sex, thats because she didnt save herself but you did who cares, shutup and have sex. JESUS... (read in full...)

Do condoms really work?

Q.   Okay so im really in love with my boyfriend and we want to have sex. Im scared the condom may break and so is he. He has everything going for him amaazing soccer player, super hot, and smart. He feels like it would be one of those " he had ...

A.   1 January 2008: condoms have a 98% chance of working that means if u had sex 100 times with a condom the condom would only break twice, very small chance of it not working, ok and if u have had sex before and u used a condom then, why are u worrying cuz u know they ... (read in full...)

What advice should I give her?

Q.   ok so i have a crush on a really cool girl. we are both 14. but the only problem is she has a gf. her parents are trying to hook us up. although she has a gf me and her have kissed whilst she was going out with her gf. she doesnt like being gay but ...

A.   26 December 2007: ok thanks for the advice, i recently found out she is moving away, her parents want us to go out and we both think that if we were going out her parents would not make her move away. but she and I are completely sure that her parents would kick her ... (read in full...)

How should I masturbate??

Q.   Could someone please give me advice on how to masturbate? I'm only 10 but I'm surrounded by sex loving people. My friend is doing it and so is my Dad. What am I supposed to do?...

A.   25 December 2007: if you are old enough to be using the web to look for this stuff then you are clearly old enough to masturbate. dont let these other dopes put you down, search for it on google and you will learn how ... (read in full...)

I told her I didn't like her because she is not my type and now she hates me. Who is out of line??

Q.   Ok, another question from me; A girl who used to be my friend had a crush on me, then one day i told one of my friends that i would never go out with her, because she is not my type which is true and i just dont feel that way about her. She found...

A.   25 December 2007: my friend asked me if i would ever go out with her and i said no its not gossip its a question... (read in full...)

I told her I didn't like her because she is not my type and now she hates me. Who is out of line??

Q.   Ok, another question from me; A girl who used to be my friend had a crush on me, then one day i told one of my friends that i would never go out with her, because she is not my type which is true and i just dont feel that way about her. She found...

A.   25 December 2007: i did not ignore her whilst she liked me i ignored her when she started to hate me, she was still my friend whilst she liked me and i spoke to her but now she hates me and i ignore her because it makes my life easier... (read in full...)

What advice should I give her?

Q.   ok so i have a crush on a really cool girl. we are both 14. but the only problem is she has a gf. her parents are trying to hook us up. although she has a gf me and her have kissed whilst she was going out with her gf. she doesnt like being gay but ...

A.   20 December 2007: ok, a situation update, her gf knows that i have a crush on her. and whenever i ask her wots up she is always so closed up and doesnt talk about it. i respect that but she always seems so depressed when she doesnt talk about it and it saddens me to ... (read in full...)

Do I have nice boobs?

Q.   I have 30G/32G boobs i have slight stretch marks that are pretty visible as I have very pale ivory skin do i have "nice boobs" or not because I feel ashamed of them? pls help...

A.   17 December 2007: well id say that ur boobs make u who u r so yes u do have nice boobs im in that age rand too XD... (read in full...)

Does having anal sex mean you are not a virgin?

Q.   this may sound stupid but if you have bum sex with your partner or anyone for that matter of fact does that mean you have lost your virginity or not? plz reply thanks...

A.   16 December 2007: the only way to lose your virginity is to have regular sexual intecourse. if the guy hasnt had regular intercourse he is still a virgin and because his penis didnt go in ur vagina ur still a virgin... (read in full...)

Do unmarried guys wear rings?

Q.   This guy I know wears a silvery plainlooking ring on his ring finger, but he's never talked about it. I've seen him out at the bar, but it's always been with a guy friend, and he's not gay or anything as far as I know. Do some guys just wear r...

A.   16 December 2007: did anybody here ever think that maybe this guy is just wearing a ring, on his ring finger because someone bought it for him but it only fits on that finger or he is just wearing a ring on it? its not rocket science to think that maybe he is just ... (read in full...)

I am 14 and I feel like my life is almost falling apart.

Q.   I am 14 and I feel like my life is almost falling apart. 1. my parents had a huge argument and are still not talking and it's getting to me. 2.my group of friends have totally split now and I only hang around with two other girls. 3.I have...

A.   24 November 2007: hey i know someone that is goin through the same thing, but can i ask yooh a question, do u by any chance, go to school in the southwest of england near bristol...... answer that and i will post some advice. cuz i know what ur goin through. btw im ... (read in full...)

We started going out so her mate doesnt like her anymore! What do I do?

Q.   im 14 and i met these 2 girls at a roadside service place on the motorway. they are both 14, i never even spoke to either of them and i left with both their numbers. they both kinda fancied me but i only liked one of them i texted her and now shes ...

A.   4 September 2007: thanks wolfy i tried wot u sed and she sed she spoke to her friend, they are back to bein friends and were still goin out... (read in full...)

My mates have all had experience with boys. Why does noone want me?

Q.   Im 15 and have had ZERO experience with a boy. All my friends have snogged boys, gave and been given oral gave handjobs, been fingered. And i have not done any of that. The most i have done is hugged a boy! I feel so repulsive. Im 5"1, 9st 5 and the ...

A.   3 September 2007: send me some private mail let me look at ur face and everything and ill try and help i dont know why u have have no experience by the way the age on my account is wrong im 14... (read in full...)

How should I propose to a girl?

Q.   I want to propose a girl but how? ...

A.   3 September 2007: u cant propose to a girl ur to young well u could but she probs wont take u seriously... (read in full...)

Will bandaging my stomach up to not look fat do anything bad to my body?

Q.   Well my family says I'm tubby, my brother says it the most. I hate it and started to bandage my stomach so I don't look fat. I do this all day and I leave it on when I go to sleep. Will bandaging my stomach up to not look fat do anything bad to my ...

A.   14 August 2007: look playa anybody who calls u fat is being a douche u are really young and if people call u tubby then thats is just a really mean way of putting huggable... (read in full...)

I also fear for my life, he has came very close to seriously injuring me in the past.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years, he is thirty and I am 20. I am still growing up and I would prefer to do it alone but I love him and he has helped me immensely. We have a lot of problems, there has been abuse, b...

A.   3 August 2007: i would be careful around him if u dont feel comfortable around him because he hurts u, u need to put ur safety in ur mind and steer clear of him. ... (read in full...)

I want to know if I were to ask her out and she says no will it ruin my friendship with her?

Q.   I have a female friend that I have liked since I met her, I want to know if I were to ask her out and she says no will it ruin my friendship with her?...

A.   3 August 2007: it depends how long u have been friends because i have had female friends and i asked them out and they sed yes because we had been friends for so long so it depends on how long u have been friends... (read in full...)

How the hell can you lose weight and look slim and also lose the man boobs?

Q.   dear cupid This is a question for the ladies, "what do you lot think of a guy that has man boobs that are bait?" and I have another question to any male that was fat and lost it all, how the hell can you lose weight and look slim and also lo...

A.   3 August 2007: start an excercise program that works for u for example i have a six pack and awesome pecs but all i do everyday is 200 situps and 100 pushups so just start with basic excercise and soon u will lose the man boobs get a more toned body. surgery is ... (read in full...)

Should I instead write a note asking him round?

Q.   I am keen on a guy but he's very shy and doesn't go out socially so I don't know him well. I'm not sure if he likes me but would like to ask him round for dinner. Would phoning him up put him too much on the spot? Should I instead write a note ...

A.   3 August 2007: no u need to make contact with him physically or just so he can hear ur voice so phone him. just ask him casually if he would like to come round for dinner sometime as a friend and a way to find out if he likes u is , because he is shy u should ... (read in full...)

Should I just end it now to stop further pain and before we get more close or should I stay with her because I do think she is worth it?

Q.   I have been in with my girlfriend for about 4 months and she has a 2 year old child. She takes the child to see his dad a few times a week and I am fine with that, it's just that my girlfriend is very close to her x because they went out for almost ...

A.   3 August 2007: u have 2 discuss ur feelings with her. u have to say to her that u are not very comfortable with wot is going on between her and her x u have to say that ur ok with them still being friendsecause they had such a long relationship but she needs to ... (read in full...)

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