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obviously wolfred is not my real name but it is pronounced
wol-fred. I got this name from my fav flower (why can't guys have fav flowers?)wolfbane.Really pretty and deadly too.Loaded with Anconite (thats a deadly poison for u folks out there)
I'm straight but no relationship.oh, and im 15
I read alot of questions, but I only reply to those which I think I can help, as im not very experienced myself.
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Does this boy like me or not? Is he just being friendly? What does his behavior mean?
Q. Hey so I want to know if this guy likes me. This might get kind of long, but I really have to know. So I will call the guy "Bob" I will call another girl who also has a crush on Bob "Sandra" Part 1: Okay so I always thought that Bob was hot...
A. 21 April 2011: i think he does....dunno bout sandra though.he may feel resigned to his fate so is trying to distance himself from you.... (read in full...)
Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her?
Q. Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her? Recently, I started to question myself whether I deserve a girl who loves me. I know I am young; I know I should focus on academics even though I am pretty good; I know teenage love is ...
A. 13 April 2011: i realy realy feel for you.i seriously almost cried. i was in there before. you more than deserve her. seriously. i can tell you are a really great guy.
what ever you do, i am with you all the way. you are not alone. good luck and stay strong.... (read in full...)
Guys: Does this mean he likes me or is he just playing?
Q. Guys I need YOUR advice..... There is this guy i like but i NEED to know if he likes me back(he already knows i like him too).... He was poking me, tickling me, scaring me, meowing at me, pulling my hair, smacked my ass, and asked my older brother...
A. 13 April 2011: i'm prety sure the answer would be...YES!... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this lost love?
Q. hi I am 21 years old girl..study in a university..I love a teacher i the university.he didn't teach me anything.When ever I saw him I became so happy and i think he knew that but I didn't say anything to him.now he has left the university and ...
A. 13 April 2011: just live on. it takes time to forget people.... (read in full...)
She likes skinny guys and I'm a big guy. How can I convince her I wouldnt be violent in a relationship?
Q. For a while i've liked this girl. A girl who likes these skinny, effeminate guys. I'm a 6'4 and 17st rugby player. I don't fit her criteria of a 'type'. We've been friends for a good few years but how can I get her to understand that just because ...
A. 13 April 2011: well, i would go introduce your self, and she will proberbly see the truth.good luck... (read in full...)
How can I keep our relationship strong when we have to hide it from my mom?
Q. Essentially my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month, and we're both in love. I don't expect people to believe you can be in love at 14, and that its probably infatuation but whatever it is makes me happy. We haven't told our parents- ...
A. 13 April 2011: i feel you SHOULD tell, 'cause it's the right, thing to do., however, since where the same age i can understand how you feel. i agree with bernand, though. good luck!... (read in full...)
How to deal with her at the prom?
Q. I have a prom in a few days...and the girl i like and wanted to go with knows this and says to one of my friends that she doesnt really like me. Now on top of that...she is bringing a guy from outside school to the prom with her...she has also rec...
A. 13 April 2011: As far as i know, the reader below me is right. good luck.... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm into him when I'm really not!
Q. I met this guy over the summer while I was on vacation in California (I live in Idaho, he lives in CA). I only saw him once, and all we did was talk. He seemed nice and we exchanged numbers. We texted each other occasionally over the summer, but now ...
A. 12 November 2010: just tell him so. a gentleman would respect your feelings... (read in full...)
Should I be bold and just tell him I like him or what?
Q. I really like this guy at my school. He's in the grade above me.I'm 17.We have mutual friends so whenever he greets them he greets me too. He always looks right at me when he says hi(not sure if that's a good sign or nothing). But we've never really ...
A. 12 November 2010: stay frens.it may be better that way.stay strong.... (read in full...)
Is confidence really important to guys?
Q. Hey, just a quick question, is confidence really important to guys? Cause i've heard that guys are more attracted to confident girls, but im really shy and I haven't had a boyfriend in ages. How can i be more confident around guys? And is confidence ...
A. 12 November 2010: confidence is important, but that does not mean guys won't make passes at shy gals. personally though i feel better if the girl is confident.update soon... (read in full...)
I don't think I can ask her out yet because I am younger than her!
Q. Not the best title but... Today i just found out she's a vegetarian I guess that helps with why she so B.e.a.u.tiful like she just thinks meat is disgusting. So Im a freshman in hIghschool and I'm like in love w/ someone 2 years older (Junior) I'm ...
A. 12 November 2010: i would say go for it bro!update soon... (read in full...)
She's 29 and lives across the Atlantic, should we get married?
Q. Hi, there cupid...,i am a guy 20 years old from Nigeria. I have a lady who lives in the U.S.A. She said that she loves me with all her heart but the problem is that she i older than me because she is 29 years old and am 20years old. If our ...
A. 12 November 2010: step 1 make sure she is real.
step 2 do what your heart tells u... (read in full...)
He throws paper at me, does that me he's interested?
Q. lost password to account before , now i remembered. so reposting this under here :) thanks if you reply. Hi i am 14yrs old i am NOT new to dating, just new to flirting. saying last time i had many BFs and i wasn't very confident ..now i am but...
A. 12 November 2010: hi im a guy 14 in 9 months and i think i know whats goin on.for the record ,yes, if a guy teases a gal its 90% chance helikes her.how do i know?....isn't it obvious?
well, u r right.he is shy.well,if u dun want him to get overwhemled..its kind... (read in full...)
Every time I fall for someone my heart gets broken! What should I do?
Q. I could probably say I'm one of the 'Popular Girls' at my school. Everyone knows who I am, and I'm best friends with all the girls I would call popular. The difference with me is I'm more laid back. I'm not one to start drama, rumors, and when it ...
A. 12 November 2010: well it seems to me that your'e a girly-tomboy.well that just means you are a girly girl, but get along(friend wise)great with guys for some reason.frm what i read, the problem seems to be with the guys.this i dun understand.i mean come on! who ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to kiss him!
Q. anyone answer (mostly guys) !!!! so , me and my boyfriend have been dating a while now ... I want to kiss him butt I'm scared . he's like 4-5 inches shorter than me , and he's really hyper ... ALL THE TIME . I want to let him know I love him and I ...
A. 12 November 2010: just walk up and do it!or if your'e talking just do it.he will be plesantly surprised.or you could just say can i kiss you then just do it after waiting 5 seconds sry dun have much experience hope this helps... (read in full...)
So it's official, we're finally over. Where do I go from here?
Q. I've posted a few times in the past two weeks about me and my (now ex) girlfriend first being on shaky communication terms, then on a break. Basically, the last time we talked and went on a break, she said she had to clear up things with fami...
A. 12 November 2010: hey, i can feel your'e deeply troubled well,this is a new start for you.forget about her, shes not worth your time bro.hey, but if u stillcan't get over it,remember this.if a guy leaves a girl,he truly loves her.
Dun wry your'e not alone where he... (read in full...)
How do I get him to make that move?
Q. There's this guy I know, we've known of each other for a while, I've been to a few parties with him now and the first time we had a bit of a spark, nothing major happened, we held hands and we were affectionate and what not, and I don’t know, was ...
A. 12 November 2010: well you could try to make the move.good luck... (read in full...)
Did I do right letting hurt boyfriend go?
Q. Hi all, I started online dating last October after being a happy single person for 2 and a half years. I felt ready to meet some new men and hopefully, someone to love. I went on two dates at the end of last year, two nice men but not for m...
A. 12 November 2010: depends on what you want. if a guy lets you go he truly loves u... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone and not be so upset all the time?
Q. Hi I was just wondering how you get over someone?? because I am in love with someone but they don't love me, but everytime I try to forget about them something just comes along and just reminds me of them, or someone will say there name or somethin...
A. 12 November 2010: i heard of a saying."if a guy leaves you, he really loves . applies for gals too. you know whats best.
good luck update soon... (read in full...)
I think I love him but I doubt we will ever be able to meet! What should I do?
Q. I knew a guy on a dating site. He's from Denmark and obviously, I think we won't ever meet. I like him. We've been chatting for three months now. We don't chat everyday, but we do exchange messages almost everyday. He has become a part of my ...
A. 12 November 2010: hi. you should try to find people that live in denmark and noe him maybye u could work sumthing out. like save up for a plane ticket?but make sure he is real ya know
sry can't help live nowhere near denmark good luck though ... (read in full...)
What is she implying?
Q. If a girl in an IM chat (who is close and you like) says "you exist in me" - What is this implying?...
A. 12 November 2010: well it could be anything frm she liking u to she knowing u exist to she finding a cool phrase of the net or even she's a evil robot who's sucked your life force!!!just kidding. why dun ask her? nothing to lose!
ps if you really want my guess, i... (read in full...)
Can you date your half brother?
Q. is it ok to date your half brother?i didint know him till the start of summer, i didint know i had a half brother till dad died then mum said we had a half brother...
A. 12 November 2010: personally i think itis okay in your case
no slamming pls... (read in full...)
How obvious do I have to be with these signals?
Q. How obvious do I have to make myself before he realises the signs im sending him. I really like him! Here we go again ... I like this guy in the year above me and we don't actually talk at all. We used to but we drifted apart because none of ...
A. 12 November 2010: as a guy around yer age im sorry to say that we know next to nothing when it comes to signals.dun know how to give them, dunno how to spot them......you get the drift.unless a girl comes up to me, i would never know she likes me.thats the ... (read in full...)
He'd rather play video games or hang out with his friends instead of having sex!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for the past two years...in two weeks it will be two years. I love him very much and I know that he loves me but I don't know anymore if it is in his heart to commit to me. Before, we used to have sex all the time...all ...
A. 12 November 2010: okay im gonna tell u a beheivourial fact about guys.
men are like rubber bands. they get intimate one moment and need some alone time next. go easy on him he still loves u, just need some man to man time u know(dun get me wrong he is not gay.... (read in full...)
Kissing best friends!
Q. ok ppl,! umm im seemin to have mixed emotions bout my best friend and he lives like 2 house down from me so we see and hang out with each other everyday! but he has a girl.. but i already worte a question bout that one incident but anywho, um y...
A. 12 November 2010: okay......this is really though so let me get this straight, your best friend's boy friend likes u?
there are two types of people that do this.
1flirtatious fools
2sensitive, confused people
for the record, i think the guy in question is... (read in full...)
I feel as if I am a lesbian!
Q. i feel as if im a lesbian i dont really know but i have feelings for a girl...
A. 12 November 2010: go with the flow. dun worry,if you like girls, or guys,or both,or none!everyone's different.im a straight guy but i dun mind gay les or bi frens... (read in full...)
Her past bothers me a lot and I don't know what to do!
Q. Dear Cupid About two years ago I ment this girl while I was at a bar league softball game! At the time she was 19 and I was 24. I bought her a shot she bought me one back we had some small talk but I didnt have enough courage to persue her! A few we...
A. 12 November 2010: she had a troubled past, and needs a shoulder to cry on. accept her, her past and all and be there for her.tell her her past dosent matter as you are there for her.u love her.she has put all her hopes on u. come on! don't disgrace us men by letting ... (read in full...)
Why do I seem to attract players and man whores?
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles! I have been noticing I attract players and man whores. Sure I admit it, I have large breasts, curves, and I'm (unfortunatly) very skinny. I don't want to be this way, I eat like a cow yet, I never gain a pound. I'm extre...
A. 12 November 2010: okay this is a very interesting situation........my speciality.a rekon u should get a cuppa or something cause this is gonna take a while. i'l deal with ur crush first.i have a feeling he likes u, but to be sure try this.u say he thinks u like one... (read in full...)
How can I ask him out without scaring him??
Q. I'm tired of having my crush ignore me a lot of the time. So, instead, I am considering asking him out, but considering I'm only 13 and never had a boyfriend before, I'm really unsure as to the best way to ask him without scaring him. Any advic...
A. 12 November 2010: okay,the first thing u could do is this little trick of mine.
1 just look out for him. if u see him often,it is proberly not a coincidence! sometimes,guys are even more nervous than u and look at u frm afar.
2 dun worry about scaring him yaknow, ... (read in full...)
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