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Not sure if she still feels the same about us?

Q.   So me and this girl have been "talking" for about 4 months now. We met through friends around March 2011 and never really talked again at all or exchanged number until we exchanged numbers over Facebook and decided to go out to eat one day in ...

A.   22 April 2012: I feel that you guys are starting to settle a bit. As the first person said keep flirting with her keep things interesting, show a lil resistance and be comfortable with her showing a lil resistance. The worse thing you can do is keep o n bothering ... (read in full...)

I need to move on in my heart, please give me suggestions?

Q.   I am only 16 years old (please don't laugh) but when I was 12 I basically lied to my parents and went out with this boy. After a few slip-ups my Mom found out and she tried to forbid me not to be with him but I never listened to her much. This boy I ...

A.   4 November 2011: boys can be really insensitive sometimes, and one of the toughest things is breaking away and leaving your first love. When this first happened to me I cried for weeks (and I wasn't the type of guy who cried for anything) and the girl which broke up ... (read in full...)

I like her a lot, but I don't want to wait forever, what do I do?

Q.   Hi. I'm hoping I can get a little help with this situation I've found myself in. I met this girl a few months back. She started working at my office and we became pretty good friends, we would often tease and flirt a little with each other. I wa...

A.   4 November 2011: wow... interesting situation. since its only two days then that's a short time, however you don't know how long this will keep up for. If I were you I would try giving her the "urgent" impression that she has reached a two-way road and now has a de... (read in full...)

Any advice on how, to, I don't know, worry less when it comes to relationship issues?

Q.   I met an amazing girl online a few months back. I know ALL the issues about online (risks I mean). We talk a lot on the phone too. My worry is that I am too insecure to keep things going until we actually meet. (we don't live too far away...

A.   4 November 2011: I personally am not a big fan of the "blind date" thing. You mentioned that you have met online and so far it has been good. Maybe you should stop worrying a bit. no one knows how this will turn out,(good or bad) but all relationships start like ... (read in full...)

Is he not contacting me because I said something wrong?

Q.   i've met a guy a couple of weeks ago, and we went out... it was nice, so we decided to keep in touch (he lives in another city), talking via skype whenever we could. Our schedules don't match, but we managed to speak at least 5 times a week... ...

A.   19 June 2011: as you said you shouldn't sound desperate but your fear of sounding desperate is worrying and may ultimately make you lose this guy. at some point you have to lower the wall of "hard to get" especially since you guys have been talking frequently. i... (read in full...)

I want this to develop into something and I think both of us are too scared to try anything. What can I do?

Q.   So, I'm digging this guy that I met online a couple of months ago. We've had three dates. The first two went really well and we seemed really into one another, but each just ended in a hug. Last night, he came over to hang out, watch movies, and ...

A.   19 June 2011: i was a shy guy myself, so i think i should be right when i tell you that he is interested in you. a way of limiting awkwardness is to have some teasy, funny banter at each other. you could start if he is to shy and then he will catch on. this may ... (read in full...)

How can I keep this guy I like as close as he is now?

Q.   Hi well I went to a dance with one of my guy friends and he started like holding my hand a little and stuff and it made me feel so good. He is really nice and sweet. I think I like him now but I don't know how to have him be as close to me as he h...

A.   19 June 2011: to stay in contact with him you could get his number or facebook, msn messenger conntact if you both have it. try to plan at least two activities where you could meet this summer. also as a guy my adivce is to dress nice, be sweet (not to soft or ... (read in full...)

My bf thought I was asleep and started masturbating to porn. How should I deal with this?

Q.   Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed cuddled up to my boyfriend about 1am this morning...

A.   23 May 2011: I thought that he masturbating in your presence, even though he thought you were asleep was a little disrespectful and you had every right to snap at him like that. However it is important to understand that nearly all men masturbate whether they ... (read in full...)

I feel bitter because girls like me now that I'm cute

Q.   Firstly i an 20 yrs old, i am a guy i am employed. lets just say if girls were to rate me on my physical appearance i would get a 7.6 out of 10. however it wasn't always like that. in my younger days i would have probably gotten a 5 out of 10. i had ...

A.   18 May 2011: I would really like to thank you all for the swift response. I would have been interested to get a man's response just to balance things out, but thanks anyway. the idea that i am getting is that i need to grow up from my young teenage thinking in o... (read in full...)

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