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writes:I have a prom in a few days...and the girl i like and wanted to go with knows this and says to one of my friends that she doesnt really like me.Now on top of that...she is bringing a guy from outside school to the prom with her...she has also recently been playing diry with me...trying her best to make me jealous by hanging around and talking abt other dudes in front of me intentionally...i on the other hand, have been calm and havent shown that i am really affected by this...infact i have kind of been doing pretty much the same thing she has been doing by being around her friends more...but now i am anxious and feel a bit awkward abt what i will do at prom and how i must be around her and her date...what if i am not able to control myself??what should i exactly do?? and how should i draw her attention towards me more that night??plz help...(no advice like "forget abt her" or "move on" because that is never easy)
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 As far as i know, the reader below me is right. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): Well here is the best I can do. You just have to think of things the way they currently are. Your obviously unsatisfied with it. To change the events that are happening you will need to make a change in communication. Tell her that you like her and that you get jealous when she brings other people around. If her reaction is negative and she says she doesn't care ect. then at least you know you tried and it's over. A broken heart is much easier to mend if you know the truth instead of trying to read clues. As far as prom, I would see how the night goes. If there is a moment her date is away that you can chat I would go for it. If that moment doesn't arise, then I would just be polite and respectable until the night is over.
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