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... Send *astedLife a private message | | | *astedLife's profile:I'm single yet again, and looking. I never wanted the single life, just a wonderful woman I could love and be loved by, live with and for, and have hot, gentle, passionate and nurturing sex with, and cuddle all night long before we made love again in the morning. Someone that shared a vision of the world and wished to walk life together, each appreciating the other for who we are.
I've walked this earth for too long, looking and learning, and am glad to share my understandings with fellow humans, both male and female. I've loved and lost too often, and I'm afraid the sadness of it all has become part of me, yet maybe I can still be of help to others.
I am well educated in the style of the Renaissance Man, able to do most anything, including carry a conversation across most disciplines, especially the sciences.
I currently live in southwestern United States with my two cats and a dog, in paradise yet all alone. I am quite well off and have my own financial means, so I can make my own schedule and work as much or as little as I please. It took years of struggle to get here, but I have arrived, though the solitude, while beautiful, is empty without a mate and lover.
You might wonder about my screen name - in my experience, life without a lover is wasted, one day or night at a time.
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Do you think he does like me really and if so what should I say to him ?.
Q. I am 24 years old soon, and i like a man who is 42. My birthday is coming up soon and he said he will go.He has stared at me and looked at me alot, stood close to me when i have been talking to other people, once he looked at me through the corner ...
A. 10 May 2008: Your situation is a bit complicated - age gap relationships are, but they're worth it and usually the older person can guide it. If possible, make it less important in your life so you can be a bit freer - that's attractive. Just let it happen - ... (read in full...)
My recent BF could be facing jail for a crime committed while drunk. I love him, what should I do?
Q. Me And my boyfriend have been dating now for 3 months an he could be facing jail soon for a crime he done wen he was drunk.Most of my family hate him but im head over heels in love with him What Should I Do???...
A. 2 May 2008: There are a couple of different things going on here. First off, what kind of crime? Something thoughtless and stupid, or something violent that shows a reckless disregard for people and property? Also, some women get VERY infatuated with someone ... (read in full...)
Should I enjoy being a prostitute this much? I need money for school.
Q. I wanted to make some money for school and decided to work as a prostitute as it is a quick way to make really good money. My question is this: I am enjoying this a lot, but on TV you are always seeing hookers who hate what they do and hate the men ...
A. 2 May 2008: I wish I knew you! You are cool and clear about yourself and your direction. I would pay attention to the advice of the 40 year sex worker. She is right on, though you might want to learn more about investments beyond the basics of stocks and ... (read in full...)
She wants a break but I only want her
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, we are just finishing university now and shes said to me she wants a break. We got together at 18 and are both 21 now, furthermore we were best friends for a year before that. She says to ...
A. 2 May 2008: Lust tends to last maybe 1-3 years, and love begins to grow over time. One idea of marriage was to bridge the gap between the fading of lust and the growth of "true love", though women tend to be more emotionally tuned in feeling creatures than us ... (read in full...)
Why do guys dump a girl after a one night stand? Bad sex, lack of respect...?
Q. Come on guys. Why do guys really dump a girl after a one night stand? Was it because the sex was bad, average? Or because you didn't respect her? If it was amazing and mind blowing and made you cum would you come back for more? Now be ...
A. 2 May 2008: I'm a guy, and this makes no sense. I really appreciate a woman that will have sex the first night, and I won't sleep with her unless she is someone that I really want to be with. The only times I have actually had a one night stand is where the ... (read in full...)
Urgent advice needed!I am pregnant and I'm going to dubai in 2 weeks.?
Q. I am pregnant and im going to dubai in 2 weeks.? since everything is set, me and my boyfriend will be having a civil wedding here in the phils. ive heard that it will be a big problem if a girl delivered a baby in dubai out of marriage, so we thoug...
A. 2 May 2008: I would definitely go to the State dept(or equivalent) of your own country and get a very clear answer. Possibly also visit the embassy or consulate of Dubai in your own country and get a written clarification. Leave a copy of this document, and a ... (read in full...)
Am I a slut? I need to know if this is normal for teenagers to do.
Q. when i was 16 years old i dated my brothers friend,i dint like him that much cause he wasnt that gorgeous and i dint like his nature either..he wanted to have sex with me but i dint agree as i said i dint like him..i did not kiss or make out with ...
A. 2 May 2008: You sound like you're finding your way. Try looking in the mirror and smiling, and focusing on that smile for a full seven seconds. You are cool, and OK, and others are good people too. We are a bit short on trust in the world, so try trusting, ... (read in full...)
I just can't find my girl. I've never even had a first kiss and I just get so depressed every time I think about it!
Q. Hello, I'm new here and was just looking for some advice. I've just turned 28 and am seriously worried because I've never had a girl friend. I just feel like everyone around me is able to move on with their lives but I just seem to be stuck at the ...
A. 2 May 2008: For some of us males - especially those that are not brought up in the USA and comfortable with being pushy, aggressive, and "funny"/happy while trying to sell themselves to women, the current paradigm of male/female "dating" is terribly sad, scary ... (read in full...)
I'm having huge problems with my cold and withdrawn father! Any advice?
Q. hey i dont live with my parents anymore but ive a huge prob with my father and its affected me my whole life. He always lived with us and hes not physically abusive or anything but he is the coldest most withdrawn person. He always expects my mother ...
A. 30 April 2008: He's your dad, and without him you would not be here. He fed and housed your family, all the while probably hurting inside. I realize you have serious damage and you need to heal, and I really empathize - my dad was that way because he was brought ... (read in full...)
What does he really mean when he tells me I'm a good girl?
Q. What's implied when a guy says good girl? He treats me well, we get along and talk alot, but sometimes i get a hint of chauvinism from him. Sometimes he calls me a ''good girl''(eg after or during sex, the 1st time i made a comment that the anal se...
A. 30 April 2008: Talk to him when you are both relaxed, and listen to his answer. It might just be a term of endearment, or it might have a special meaning to him. Let go of the worry - it certainly doesn't sound like anything bad. He's probably just happy that ... (read in full...)
I don't want to date my sugar daddy, but i want him to keep buying me stuff!
Q. I'm 18 and a student at a university. One of my teacher's assistants is this guy Paul. One night I went out with Paul for drinks and his friend Jimmy came along. Jimmy paid for all my drinks, and even though I wasn't attracted to him, I let him. ...
A. 30 April 2008: If you are real, you are a creepy, gross, disgusting gold digger. Most gold diggers are not this overt, and I have to wonder what you are even doing in college. What are you studying? Theft? A prostitute is generally an honest woman, giving va... (read in full...)
Do you think he does like me really and if so what should I say to him ?.
Q. I am 24 years old soon, and i like a man who is 42. My birthday is coming up soon and he said he will go.He has stared at me and looked at me alot, stood close to me when i have been talking to other people, once he looked at me through the corner ...
A. 30 April 2008: He likes you, and he's terrified to tell you because he doesn't want to get rejected(again). After a while, some guys just stop asking, because they are rejected too often to bear. You didn't mention where you met - if at work, he may be worried ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to have sex with another man to get pregnant!
Q. My wife is desperate to get pregnant. She is 39 and we have been trying for about 4 years. She doesn't want to do IVF we tried IUI and she hated it. A good friend has offered to have sex with her (unprotected) to see if that would work. (nb I am not ...
A. 30 April 2008: This is a really bad idea. If the potential pregnancy is worth more than your relationship, you two won't last. Marriage is tough enough without third parties, and if she got pregnant by him, the child would always carry the genes of that ... (read in full...)
A period twice in one month? Why?
Q. I'm 17 and Kay well I have my period April 7 - 13 and then I got it again April 25 - current... I did have unprotected sex with my boyfriend in between those times.. but I was just wondering if it was normal to get your period twice in one month.. ...
A. 30 April 2008: Periods in your teens tend to be far more erratic than in your 20's and 30's. Emotional factors, radical exercise or change in diet and/or birth control pills and patches can affect periods. Unprotected sex can be a serious emotional challenge - ... (read in full...)
Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?
Q. I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and ...
A. 29 April 2008: This situation is really sad. If you love your husband, you will keep this guilty knowledge to yourself forever, see a therapist if you must, but he must never know. It will devastate him and your family, and he may even disown the kids. If y... (read in full...)
I just can't find my girl. I've never even had a first kiss and I just get so depressed every time I think about it!
Q. Hello, I'm new here and was just looking for some advice. I've just turned 28 and am seriously worried because I've never had a girl friend. I just feel like everyone around me is able to move on with their lives but I just seem to be stuck at the ...
A. 29 April 2008: I had the privilege of first sex at 18 and had to work really hard to get that. I moved 3500 miles away from my parents to the PNW, the most sexually free part of the USA. Sex is VERY important to guys - and I don't think most women realize how ... (read in full...)
She already has a boyfriend, is it right to try and steal her away ?
Q. Hello There is this girl I think about heaps and heaps and I would really want to be with but she has a boyfriend. I think she used to like me but he got to her first...... Is it right to try and get her to like me again and in a sense "steal" he...
A. 29 April 2008: There are ethics in going after a woman/girl in a relationship, or a marriage. We each have our own ethics, but these are mine: I will never interfere with a relationship unless I intend to be with that woman for as long as she'll have me. I am ... (read in full...)
Would you still want her if the sex stopped completely?
Q. Ok we are talk about how we are suppose to love the person who we are with for who they are and it is not all about sex? But now guys, if your girlfriend told you she did not want to sleep with you for a while how many months would you give h...
A. 29 April 2008: If you truly love somebody, something will be there forever. Life without sex and intimacy is truly painful though, and we all need to get it somewhere, if only for our own well being. I would always love her, but would do all I could to get sex ... (read in full...)
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