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He truly doesn't turn me on sexually anymore. What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and it feels like I've lost my interest in him sexually. We went hard and heavy the first 2 years but it went downhill from there. We have been going through problems which I think has some...

A.   26 August 2011: Right, you haven't made a committment, he's a boyfriend not a husband. You chose to live together, not to make a permanent commitment. So it was on a trial basis, and the trial hasn't worked out. So move on.... (read in full...)

My man will live in my basement, but not move upstairs with me, WHY???

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my partner for almost 5 years we live in the same house for just over 3 years . We have great sex in bed lots of passion, but he only sleeps with me on weekends. He lives in my basement, I have asked him to move up ...

A.   26 August 2011: You'll have to ask him to get a real answer. Some thoughts: being older and having spent times between relationships, you kinda get used to sleeping on your own. Two days a week with someone is great, but the rest of the time, when you're not ... (read in full...)

Guys - which is best - your woman or porn?

Q.   A question for the straight guys: If your girlfriend/wife gave you the ultimatum to choose between her and porn, which would you choose? Regardless of her reason, would you choose her if you knew that you would never be allowed to look at porn...

A.   21 August 2011: If my wife were ready, willing and able there's no way I would go look for some porn instead. If she were prepared to work together with me so that our sex life was mutually satisfactory, I'd happily forget porn exists. But of course it's not ... (read in full...)

Could being gay just be a phase?

Q.   First off, I'm just going to say that this might not be the best looking question in terms of spacing. I was wondering if some of you have ever gone through a gay/bi phase? This is a very embarassing thing for me to say, but I'm gay. I'm sure of ...

A.   19 August 2011: Absoultely it can be just a phase. I didn't feel perhaps as stongly as you, but I definitely had same-sex attraction in my early teens. Never did anything about it, and was totally into girls shortly thereafter. That's why I never suggest to ... (read in full...)

How often do people have sex after being together 5 years or more?

Q.   hi guys i was just wondering how often people have sex in a longterm relation ship of over 5 years. I undertand sex slows down but has ours lost to much ...

A.   19 August 2011: Everyone's different. There are people here who will claim once or more a week even after 20 years. Personally it's more like once a week after five years, and tapering off after that, so it's more like once a month by 20 years.... (read in full...)

I caught my husband in bed with another woman.

Q.   i saw my husband on bed with another woman may 13 2011 his friends gve me the hint and help me open to reality, the worst day of my life. i hate him now and we have a child. a very beautiful child. i want to teach him a hard lesson??? tell me how?...

A.   19 August 2011: The best lesson you can teach him is to move on, successfully rebuild your life, and find a quality man to act as a loving father to the child. Show him just what the cheating cost him.... (read in full...)

What do guys think of girls with tattoos?

Q.   Question for guys please..what do you think of girls with tattoos?!? I'm 33, attractive and single and I have 2 tattoos, one tribal design on my lower back and some writing down my wrist. Both are small and plain black. However I'm worried it puts ...

A.   19 August 2011: I'm probably older than the sort of chap you're interested in, but FWIW I loathe tattoos. When I was growing up it simply wasn't what a quality person would do. The fact that they're everywhere now doesn't change my bias -- given the choice ... (read in full...)

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