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I opened up a little book of hers and started reading about her past...

Q.   I am 18 years old and i met the most amazing girl about 7 months ago. About 2 months into our relationship we decided to have a child together, our parents know and we have talked it through. However she has been sexually promiscuous in the past ...

A.   9 April 2010: Let her go. You can't confront her about something that you had no business reading. If you began searching for things you may just find exactly what yoour looking for! Not saying you were purposly invading her space, but you still had no business ... (read in full...)

Do you consider him as a homosexual or not?

Q.   Hi please help me out of this. I met this man on the internet and we chat with cam. he's 30 and am 23. we explained ourselves well. i asked him whether he's married or single. he told me that he's married and with one baby girl. the way he chat with ...

A.   9 April 2010: This is ancient! Older guy meets younger guy and eventually gains an attraction. This guy wants you for more than a friend. Yes he is married, however there is a very small possibility that his wife knows nothing of his bisexuallity. I would suggest ... (read in full...)

I'm jealous of his online friend and its affecting our marriage

Q.   My husband is into gaming. At first, I was okay with it. I thought it was a harmless hobby and he was doing some writing for his character. He would have me read his writing and I enjoyed seeing this creative side of him. Now, though, it's sta...

A.   9 April 2010: I totally understand your position. The reason he can connect with his online friend is because she is not there. There is no tone of voice, facial expressions, the topics are limited and they share an intrest. Do you game? if not, ask him to teach ... (read in full...)

I'm 17, pregnant and considering adoption!

Q.   I'm 17, pregnant and considering adoption, i have read that you grieve every day and can no longer enjoy your childhood for worrying about the baby you gave up. I feel little for the foetus, although being only a month old i'll admit, and only ...

A.   9 April 2010: I myself can not have children.I am looking to adopt myself. I am young and at first I thought that infertility was for old ladies. When a woman has made up her mind to adopt she opens up a whole new world for woman like me. Children are not for ... (read in full...)

Bunny Boiler trapped my husband in a 5 year affair!

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 16 years, we have two children ages 9 and 10, I caught him at this girls house 5 years ago, and he said he was helping her thru issues and they were friends- dumb me right- I believed him. I ask him to not talk ...

A.   9 April 2010: Well you have to give him credit for creativity. When in doubt throw it out. Give yourself some space. Love doesnt hurt. **** Atleast u kicked his ass.... (read in full...)

Am I mid-life crazy or is it truly time to make a break?

Q.   I'm a 39 year old guy, married 18 years with 2 kids 15 and 10 boy and girl. My wife has had a lot of health problems over the years. About 6 or 7 years ago our sex life became virtually non-existant. Finally 3 years ago I had an affair for about 4 ...

A.   9 April 2010: Look at it this way, " nothing last 4ever". if you are going to move out, get a place and invite your 20 year old gf to your spot and vice-versa. You can still have your freedom and your family wont feel uncomfortable when visiting and things. When ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my new partner I'm pregnant with my ex's baby?

Q.   hey so i broke up with my ex 1 month ago and i have just found out i am pregnant i am really happy about it and i have told my ex but my problem is i now have a new partner that i have been with for 3 weeks and i dont know how to tell him. i really...

A.   9 April 2010: Telling him is up to you. Just don't lie about it if it comes up. if you really like him give him the news. On the other hand, you can just break it off slowly, and he will never really have to know why. if he is a desent guy and you tell him, he ... (read in full...)

I'm male and like to give head but I'm NOT gay!

Q.   How come girls think guys who suck another guy are gay? It happens. I'd much rather be sucking a girl but I like giving a guy head every once in a while. Is there something wrong with that?...

A.   9 April 2010: I like putting my mouth on my man's big dick and shuving it down my throat. And of course that does not make me gay, do to the fact that I am a WOMAN! Now you on the other hand, have some terminology to study. Get a dictionary, a thesourous and a ... (read in full...)

His ex gf moved in with 'his' Mom! This has upset me! What can I do?

Q.   Long Story short. Me and my guy have been together for a couple years now. His ex-girlfriend of 6 years just moved in with his mom and it's driving me crazy. My BF and I live together about 20miles away from his mom, "all of a sudden", his mom calls ...

A.   6 April 2010: O.k. First to say thanks. The Ex G/F moved in like over night. No one said anything, no talking about it, nothing. He swares to me, that he had no idea what was going on. And I thought that his mom and I were on pretty good terms. however,His mom ... (read in full...)

My married best friend is in love with me

Q.   My best friend and I have been inseperable for the last 13 years. He has just recently gotten married. since then I have distanced myself, do to the fact that all women are not as comfortable with their other half having a female for a best friend. ...

A.   31 March 2010: Thank all of you for your feedback. I really cherish the friendship that him in I have , however I am in no way attracted to him nor would I ever chance my friendship for intimacy. He is a great guy, a great father and his family is beautiful. Thats ... (read in full...)

I had no blood or pain when I had sex for the first time, has anyone else been the same as me?

Q.   This is something very personal that's been bugging me for years so I'm just going to ask it. When I first had sex at 18 I was looking forward to the "traditional experience" - blood, a little pain, you know. However, I was quite let down. There ...

A.   29 March 2010: Your over reacting. Your situation is a good thing. I lost my virginity at 18 also. Actuall there was no pian at all, nor any blood. Maybe it had something to do with his mediaum size or it could have just been my sensitivity to pain. Now that I ... (read in full...)

I'm woried that anal sex on my bf might turn him gay!

Q.   I am a young lady thats enjoys anal sex every once and a while. I also like to perform anal sex on my guy( it turns me on in a weird and powerful way). However,it seems that he really enjoys it now. B4 he did for my benifit.I used to have to begg ...

A.   23 March 2010: Well, I dont really think that he is gay. However I do think that he enjoys it a little more than he should. He loves having anal sex with me, an he enjoys me "dildo-ing" him. I just dont want him to ever leave me for a guy, then its would be all my ... (read in full...)

I don't think I'm gay...but I've had sexual intercourse with other men

Q.   Ok, to go right into this. I consider myself a straight male, heterosexual and love woman; however, there comes a time where I find myself fantasizing about have sexual intercourse with men. I have participated in gay sex and i was in the receiving ...

A.   23 March 2010: There is nothing wrong with the desire to be sexually submissive. I am a 27 year old woman that enjoys giving my guy anal sex with my dildo or my strap on. He enjoys it. He has never had sex with a guy, nor do I believe that he would ever share our ... (read in full...)

Abortion pill??????

Q.   MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. I am 4 weeks pregnant and having issues. I dont believe in abortion , however having this baby is not the best idea at the moment. How safe is the abortion pill? 2nd question: How would the abortion pill af...

A.   10 January 2010: Thank you guys for your honesty and support. I really need it.... (read in full...)

Does my fiancee have a say about my decision to send my children on a summer trip?

Q.   I am a 50 year old WIDOWER with two children - an 18 year old and a 16 year old. I just engaged my girlfriend who is 44 and has an 18 year old. We live in our house - they live in theirs. We plan to marry late 2010, after her 18 year old goes off ...

A.   8 January 2010: Sometime woman make a big deal out of nothing in order to establish change. When u guys were dating I assumed she kept her peace. Now that the relationship has elaborated she feels as if the scope of her title should also. Basically she is demanding ... (read in full...)

I need ideas! What can I do to get him to try and lose weight?

Q.   Recently I have noticed my fiance's weight gain. To me it's not a problem, I still find him attractive no matter what. But he's noticed it and has got a complex about it, his frineds call him 'fat' fatty' etc and I can see it really gets to him. ...

A.   8 January 2010: First u start by being honest with him. Your only obligation is honesty. Suggest that you guys work out together. If you guys live together, control his meals. Cook foods that are better for the both of you. A journey to good health is always more ... (read in full...)

Sign over your rights!

Q.   I am 4 weeks pregnant. I discoved this on New Years Eve. When I told my then boyfriend he was very excited. I havent heard from him in 4 days. He wont answer my calls, he took me off his FB (how childish is that?). I texed him and asked him to just ...

A.   8 January 2010: Thank you guys. I have never been in this position before nor I did I plan it.Through text He says that he is not ready and wants me to abort. I will be 27 in a couple of weeks and time stops for no 1. I have a growing life inside my tummy and I ... (read in full...)

Anal anxiety!!!

Q.   I've never had anal sex nor had my ass eaten out. My boyfriend wants to try something new and I'm up for it. If I've never had anyone barely even touch my ass, will it feel good when he does it? Or will it take some getting used to. I'm kind of ...

A.   7 January 2010: Be patient , dont rush, and use lots of lubricant. Find out what type of lubricant is good with ur skin. Anal sex can be very enjoying, however u dont want to have a bad experience the first time. Doing it the wrong way can leave u with permanant ... (read in full...)

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