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age
36-40,
*avement8
writes:Ok, to go right into this. I consider myself a straight male, heterosexual and love woman; however, there comes a time where I find myself fantasizing about have sexual intercourse with men. I have participated in gay sex and i was in the receiving end. I just have these urges to be submissive but its nothing with feelings. The few guys whom Ive been with, I dont kiss or try to turn it into a "relationship." I am a bit confused as to what this means to me. I don't find men attractive. I wouldn't date, hold hands or even "cuddle" with any guy.I feel like its just a sexual thing, but I dont know if this means I am Full blown gay. I like woman, I check out girls left and right and they turn me on like any other full heterosexual male. I have had plenty of relationships with different woman. SO, what does this mean? DO i just have a sexual disorder, because thats all I want when it comes with guys. HElp??? Reply to this Question
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reader, maymay111 +, writes (24 March 2010):
Ok. Dude, You are not gay! it somtimes just happends! Ive done the same before! sometimes it feels better because guys no what guys like simple as that! or you are bi nuthin to freak about! good luck! Sincereley: Maymay111
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reader, uncutdan +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Hey Buddy,
You're normal. It feels good to receive anal from another guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): You're bisexual and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Like a lot of bi guys, you probably respond romantically more to women and your attraction to men is entirely based on sex: hence, no interest in cuddling or holding hands or having a proper 'relationship' with a man. They're there for one thing only. That's fine, that's the way you feel. No point beating yourself up about it.
You are what you are, look on it as a blessing.
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reader, unappeciatied +, writes (23 March 2010):
There is nothing wrong with the desire to be sexually submissive. I am a 27 year old woman that enjoys giving my guy anal sex with my dildo or my strap on. He enjoys it. He has never had sex with a guy, nor do I believe that he would ever share our sex life with anyone either.lol. But it satisfies his sexual desires, and mine too. I love the power and being the only one that can "violate" him. Talk with your woman friend and suggest some new things. Go to the adult toy store and explore your options.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Do not worry about how those bigoted people will judge you. As long as you are happy and your conscience is clear, there is nothing wrong with you.
You have a different sexual orientations. There is no right or wrong unless you think so.
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