How to deal with boyfriend's best female friend?
Q. We have been together a bit more than a year. Half a year ago we had hard time in our relationship (broke up for a few weeks). No serious reason: we are two stubborn people. My boyfriend has a female friend (for 3-4 years by now) with who they sha...
A. 16 September 2015: Namaskar,
I agree with the other posters. You have to let your boyfriend know that this is unacceptable behaviour on his part. It seems like their relationship is platonic with undercurrents of something else? Maybe she has made it her business... (read in full...)
Why does my ex need to stay in touch? I am rather irritated and annoyed but too nice to tell him to stop
Q. My ex still hands around me as a 'friend'. We stopped sleeping with each other about 10 years ago, as basically I do not find him attractive anymore - so had no desire to be in a relationship with him. However, his family live nearby and whene...
A. 16 September 2015: Namaskar,
Just let him know that you are not comfortable around him. He seems like a nice guy and probably is content seeing you as a friend, but if his being with you is so unbearable, you'll really have to tell him that the visits/c... (read in full...)
Instead of my crush asking me out, he offered me a job. Do I take it?
Q. I'm a single parent of two awesome boys. I'm attracted to a healthcare provider that I believe to be single. (but my children see him now.) I believe this is mutual. Instead of asking me out he offered me a job. A very very good opportunity. ...
A. 16 August 2015: Namaste,
I think you have to decide what is more important to you - your feelings for this person, or the job he's offering you.
To be very clear, if you do take up the job offer, then you ought to throw away all your feelings for this man, be... (read in full...)
Should I chose my dreams over a man?
Q. I am in a big dilemma now. i have huge aspiration since i saw my cousins getting married and movin to US . i also want to pursue my career in US and want to settle there so i am giving my GRE in nov.Even my sister who is married is planning to move ...
A. 16 August 2015: Namaste,
I would suggest that you go ahead with what you had planned for - that is, your career.
If you do settle down with this guy, then your entire life, you will feel like you settled for less, and that might get to be a contentious issu... (read in full...)
Should I chose my dreams over a man?
Q. I am in a big dilemma now. i have huge aspiration since i saw my cousins getting married and movin to US . i also want to pursue my career in US and want to settle there so i am giving my GRE in nov.Even my sister who is married is planning to move ...
A. 16 August 2015: Namaste,
I would suggest that you go ahead with what you had planned for - that is, your career.
If you do settle down with this guy, then your entire life, you will feel like you settled for less, and that might get to be a contentious issu... (read in full...)
Should I find some new friends who are like us and don't have children?
Q. I want to start by saying that I hope what I'm about to write doesn't appear selfish as its really not my intention. I have 3 really close friends and we have all know each other since school (give or take 12 years). We are all married and 2 ...
A. 16 August 2015: Namaste, I completely understand your situation - I do not intend on having children either, but most of my friends do already, or will have children. First I would like to tell you that you are completely justified in feeling hurt - your... (read in full...)
My boyfriend claims he is still on a dating app just to make friends?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy and we have met loads of times, been on plenty of dates, ive met his family and stayed at his and are now dating for about two months and ive noticed hes still on the dating app... which i find insulting.. but he says ...
A. 23 July 2015: I read this, and my head went - LIES, LIES!!
You should ask him straight up where the two of you stand, and why he's adding random (female) people as friends. Is he using the dating app to find male friends too? Because if he's finding new frie... (read in full...)
I have self confidence issues. Why wouldn't my boyfriend defend me when nasty remarks were said?
Q. I have almost zero confidence when it comes to my body. I'm a size 16, and due to being bullied as a child due to my weight I have never had any confidence with guys. I have had boyfriends in the past, but I had been single for nearly two years...
A. 23 July 2015: That's simply terrible. You deserve someone so much better. You ought to leave him, but not without telling him to his face why. He is disrespectful, cheap and definitely not worthy of your attention.
You know, come to think of it, maybe he isn't... (read in full...)
I'm not sure that my boyfriend is ready to propose marriage and it makes my heart heavy
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, Please bare with me, i'll try to make this as clear and as short as possible. My boyfriend has been talking about proposing for sometime now. We live in a conservative culture where it has to be official and have his pa...
A. 23 July 2015: Namaskar, You're extremely fortunate that you have a loving partner who is well liked by your parents. The fact that he is going to ask your father for your hand in marriage MUST be making him nervous! Any guy would be, and especially more ... (read in full...)
Will I get pregnant if we cuddle and bath together? Is it Ok to do such things before marriage?
Q. My bf agreed not to have sex before marriage but told me he is interested in doing things with me like covering my breasts with cream and then licking it off by himself,cuddling and bathing together. Is it okay to do such things before marriage...
A. 21 June 2015: Namaskar. I agree with Abella - you should not get into something that you are certainly not comfortable with. Being with a boyfriend, it might be natural for either of you to want to get physically intimate with one another. But you should... (read in full...)
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