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| | *oHereKnowsWhen's profile:So here I am.
I have always been an 'Agony Aunt'. I don't even know why, so I suppose I am really an 'Accidental Agony Aunt'. I do like trying to give people sensible advice and hopefully make some difference to them. Sometimes I actually get this right.
I came across this website by accident and thought 'how wonderful'. I really wanted to be part of this.
I actually believe that I can take responsibility for how I see and feel about the various events in my life. It can get pretty difficult but I have learned that I can change things that make me feel not so good into something that doesn't make me feel quite so bad. This doesn't always work, but I try.
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Does my fetish make me abnormal?
Q. Hello, I would like some advice on a personal and potentially embarrassing issue. I have a sexual fetish for shiny or transparent, glossy pvc plastic. Anything made from shiny or transparent pvc arouses me- pvc raincoats, transparent pvc shower c...
A. 7 January 2011: I understand fetish to be "a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body". Then give or take the definition of abnormal, most of us would have fetishes to some ... (read in full...)
Real love can never happen unless you can trust, give, and communicate
Q. You are at work palms all sweaty thinking about tonight and part of you wants to just say,"forget it." Everyday you are falling for him and you know where this is leading. You want so bad to make this work but your past is holding you back. When ...
A. 7 January 2011: There is nothing quite like having your heart torn out. You seem like a very sensitive person which is refreshing.
Stop attacking yourself and carrying all of that emotional baggage round from your past. Each time you start a relationship it is a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to lose weight!
Q. Help! My boyfriend has a problem with my weight. I think I'm pretty hot though, and not overweight at all. I am 5'6 and weigh 132 lbs. His problem is, I've gained weight since we've been together. When we first met, I was a professional dancer and ...
A. 7 January 2011: As far as I'm concerned, if YOU say you're hot, then you're HOT sister! I would have hoped that your boyfriend was saying to lose weight because of health issues... I don't think so. Just out of interest I went to this site http://www.halls... (read in full...)
I need your input on life priorities
Q. Can I just ask - how many of you out there are TRUELY happy in your lives? Life is such a balancing act. One area of your life starts going really well, but the others start failing, or you have to compromise things you want to have something y...
A. 7 January 2011: You're not a screwed up person. Actually, you seem quite normal. You have a lot of choices in life and that is a great place to be. I like the life I have, yes it is about me doing a balancing act but over time I have learned that I can usually ch... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for limiting contact with my ex?
Q. Hello, my ex and i have 2 children together, we split up a while ago and have remained good friends. i am on my path to be happy with being single and my ex has gotten himself involved with a gitl that has a rep for screwing guys over. she only got ...
A. 6 January 2011: Well actually, I don't understand why you are limiting your contact with your ex. You gave the reason that you don't want to upset anyone, but are you? It seems that you have caused more upset by not spending time with him. How do your children ... (read in full...)
Low self-esteem and looking to get my confidence back.
Q. Up until I was 12, I had many friends, was very outgoing, and loved life. Now its the opposite. When I got to the age of 12, I got really bad acne. Since then, my confidance has gone down, I rarley talk to people, because that means they have ...
A. 6 January 2011: This is a wonderful opportunity for you to shine! Forget piles of makeup this is a time to change your focus from trying to be Miss World to being a really great person by showing people WHO you really are. It will be difficult to gain your confid... (read in full...)
Two relationships may be better than one intense one.
Q. First my background. I've been separated 6 months now after a long term marriage (over 25 years). My wife and I grew apart over the years and two children are grown and gone and the last one is in her third year of HS and has basically encouraged ...
A. 6 January 2011: Hey justquestions, it sounds like you are playing a game of chess with all those moves, strategies and analysis. LOL. You seem like a really nice man. The two women will appreciate you behaving like a gentleman. Don't forget that the 'first' woma... (read in full...)
He won't tell his ex about us!
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for Four months now. Our relationship didn't exactly start in a dream way, since he was at the time in a relationship with another girl when we met. He has since ended his relationship with her to be with me ...
A. 6 January 2011: Your boyfriend might be a serial 'X-man'. How do you know he won't start his next relationship by cheating on you in the same way? That 'ex' might be YOU one day, texts and all.
You said that "he wanted to save her feelings by not telling her abou... (read in full...)
Guy with definite mixed signals!
Q. I like this guy who is very much a ladies man! he has never admitted he likes me but gets with me sometimes and texts me quite a lot, I know he talks to other girls so it isn't just me but I know all he wants is sex because thats what he tells me ...
A. 6 January 2011: I'm sorry suziel56, but I don't like the sound of this. You might like to hear hearts and flowers but you said it yourself: 'mixed signals'. He seems inconsistent. I'll bet he's very handsome as well. Sure you like him but at the same time you seem ... (read in full...)
She's getting too much attention after losing over 100 pounds!
Q. My girlfriend is and always has been gorgeous. I love her dearly and since we've started dating she's lost over 100 pounds! She looks even more incredible than I ever could have imagined although she was always stunning to me. My problem is ...
A. 6 January 2011: Don't forget that she's still the same person on the inside. Be happy and confident that this wonderful person who has worked hard to control her weight loves YOU and you are still the same person. I assume that to lose 100 pounds must have requir... (read in full...)
Husband is sharing a room with a friend during a business trip, feeling uncomfortable about it
Q. Hi, my husband is in another contry doing some bussines.. in this moment he is traveling with some friends that I met before. I talked with him today and asked about his friends, how they are doing...etc.. he told me the hotel right now is ver...
A. 5 January 2011: I can understand you being uncomfortable in this situation. I am sure that if he was up to something he could easily have lied, but he didn't. If you trust him then he deserves the benefit of the doubt.
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Every time I check her emails it is a bad surprise...so how can I trust her?
Q. OK, weird situation here. I have a friend who is a girl and I am a guy (last time I checked hahaha). Anyway, don't ask how, but I figured out how to check her email. Yeah I know it's low. But the reason I did it is because I wanted to see what kind ...
A. 5 January 2011: Whatever you think she is, she doesn't need you going through her emails. If you didn't find anything that disgusted you in her 'inbox' would that make it right? No. Leave her alone.... (read in full...)
How do I force him to seek help?
Q. Hello, and thanks in advance I've been with my bf for 2.5 years and its been a constant battle more so this last 1.5 I'm unable to go anywhere with gf's unless he is present, unable to have my own privacy on Facebook without him having acce...
A. 5 January 2011: You have been way too tolerant of this creep. Most animals get better treatment than what you are being dealt. Your life is your own and as you've realised, you can't live it very well with him always looking over your shoulder. You are nursing a ... (read in full...)
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