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| | *he one who doesn't know's profile:I'm living in a complete mess. But i sincerely like it. And since I don't know how to solve my own problems, since for me they are unsolvable, I decided to help the ones whose problems are for me not such a mystery.
Bah just joking. I like to play the misterious spooky guy, because I like to test peoples reaction. The truth is that I love my life, and would love to make other happy, so as soon as I found out of this site, decided to start answering, the questions which look I'm able to answer. I'm not he kind of guy who likes to comfort anybody, and if I have to say anything, I'll say it in the face, the most brutal way possible. For me that's the only way of people to find out the truth. And I also like to give people another perspective of the problem, and sometimes thanks to those two, end up having serious debates. I'm not the kind of guy who likes to give away info not needed. But knowing I'm 13 will give you another prospect of me, now won't it? |
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Too young to be engaged & in love with someone else, what do I do?
Q. I am 19 years old and engaged. I have also been in love with a different man for almost 6 years. Recently, the man that i've been in love with for 6 years confessed how he wants to be with me and has had mutual feelings for the same amount of time. ...
A. 25 August 2009: I don't think you have to be so drastic as to break up the engagement. First clear up your things with the other guy, see why only now is he interested, why not a long time ago. Humans (wanted to make it more general) can be very deceiving, so clear ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 20, is this ok?
Q. ok i am 15 going to be 16 in 2 weeks and i have been dating a guy who is 20 we have been together 4 2 months now is that ok ??? cause sometimes it doesn't feel right when we first met we didn't talk much but we liked each other a lot from the moment ...
A. 25 August 2009: I'm sorry that I am not of aware of your countries laws, but generally there is no problem unless says there. I'm going to be frank with you, if you never have sex, there's no way of legally prove it wrong. If you do have, that's just a moral ... (read in full...)
What do I do in case he has feelings left for the ex?
Q. I think my boyfriend might leave me. I thought everything was ok between us, but I'm not sure if he's still in love with his ex. He says he loves me but why does he care so much about what happens to her. If he cares that much, then why isn't he ...
A. 7 December 2008: I agree with emporessmystique . When you share something like a relationship, you end up caring for the other person, even though you don't want to be with them anymore...... (read in full...)
In love with a known lier and womanizer. Do you think he has changed for me?
Q. right iv been seeing a guy for 9 months on and off. but he told me weeks ago im the girl he loves and wants to be with. BUT he has a really bad reputation hes got 2 kids to two different mothers. i hear hes a womanizer, cheat, liar and caught lots ...
A. 13 November 2008: you shouls trust him. i know it can sound like another lie, but he can actually love you. and you love him. give him the benefit of the doubt. but stay alerted, to any possible rumors or strange things
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Why do guys and girls never understand each other?
Q. Why do guys and girls never understand each other? I thought I had it figured but I am dead wrong. please help......
A. 13 November 2008: because they are a lot different. it's not just guys and girls. it's girls and girls, guys and guys... the only thing that makes guys and girls more different is that they're bodies and part of their mentalities are different. if there was a study ... (read in full...)
Should I I let the best thing that has ever happened to me disappear or should I tell him how I feel?
Q. I finished with my boyfriend in in July. We had been going out for 6 months and I loved him soo much. I was soo happy with him because he would do anything for me. He meant the world to me but then we started to argue and then my grandad died and ...
A. 13 November 2008: tell him how you feel! you can't let him go like that, without ever telling him. or else it will torment you, not knowing what would his answer be...... (read in full...)
I like goth clothing, is goth believing in the devil?
Q. Hey, I'm a christian. I like goth clothing. Just the way they look, dress. Can I dress goth? Is goth believing in the devil. I want to know more about goth. Any advice?...
A. 13 November 2008: you can dress however you like. it's your choice, to be what you want to be. satanism is beleiving in the devil. that's something WAAY diferent. being goth is dressing in those strange outfits, and funky hairdresses. worshiping the devil is killing ... (read in full...)
After everything he still acts like he loves me, what's up with this guy?
Q. Dear Cupid, For the past 4 years now this guy and i met we became best friends i told him i liked him but back then he was so busy and he was too shy and gave me a letter saying we shouldnt go out because he didnt have the time he thought i deserv...
A. 12 November 2008: Sometimes guys, think like this (very stupid way of thinking though...): "I like this girl but I love this other girl. So what should I do. I know, I have an "afair" of one or two days, and then back to being the devoted lover of my one true love". ... (read in full...)
Hey guys - how would you feel about a gf who sings you to sleep?
Q. I'm curious and I would like to hear from guys. How would you feel about a girlfriend who sings you to sleep every night? I've always dreamt of having a boyfriend who would love that. I wish I could sing like Mariah Carey but my choir teache...
A. 12 November 2008: i would just love that. it would be like the return to childhood. ah those happy days. a girlfriend who did that would be someone unforgetable. but where to find one?...... (read in full...)
I want my dad out of my life because of the way he treated me and my partner!
Q. i keep worrying about the future. when my father first found out about me and my partners big age gap he was furious with me and told me i was never to see him again. i wasn't happy with this at all as my father has hardly ever been in my life so i ...
A. 12 November 2008: i can see you feel really in love with this guy. and pardon me for my old-fashioned mind (even though i'm 13). if it makes you happy, if it makes your lfe count every day, than you should tell your dadd that. your life will be miserable if you ... (read in full...)
Help! Best friends and boy trouble!
Q. I have started to fall for a boy in my year. We are really good friends but one of my best friends has fancied him since the beginning of the year. Also his best friend fancies me. I kissed him for a dare and I admit I loved it (lol cringe!)...
A. 12 November 2008: of couse that would make trouble! have you heard of the "Chaos theory" or "butterfly effect"? it says that a butterfly flying in japan, can cause a tornado in texas. that's the same thing. the even fact your near him, will cause rumors, which will ... (read in full...)
I want my dad out of my life because of the way he treated me and my partner!
Q. i keep worrying about the future. when my father first found out about me and my partners big age gap he was furious with me and told me i was never to see him again. i wasn't happy with this at all as my father has hardly ever been in my life so i ...
A. 12 November 2008: okay. now it has gone from normal, to creepy. not that I disaproove, but a guy with 37 years, is old enough to be your father! maybe his even older than your father! so i can see why your father is over-reacting. but i keep the same idea as earlier... (read in full...)
He's showing all the symptoms of liking me but he has a girlfriend!
Q. There is a lad in my class and he is made to sit next to me and when he does he rests his leg on mine. He looks at me from time to time and is always talking to me on instant messenger. He has a girlfriend and the other day he got my phone number ...
A. 11 November 2008: I guess so. All that indicates he likes to have you around, and prefers to lie to his girlfriend to stop talking to you. That's one big sign he's into you but don't get your expectations too high, he can just want you as a friend.... (read in full...)
She gets mad at me all the time, what is going on??
Q. hey everybody i really dont know whats going on between me and my girlfriend, she goes to college and visits me every week. shes 18 im only 16. were going to be 6 months tomorrow. she visited me yesterday so we can be together for our anniversary, ...
A. 11 November 2008: I think you should talk. Talk a lot. even if she gets mad, if you start arguing, you HAVE to talk. if not just i don't know what to say. if she says he's a friend, and hasn't lied to you, i think you should trust her. i mean, she said, "i love ... (read in full...)
I need help forgetting my past friends and memories...
Q. Everyone has moved on with their lives my mom, my brother, all my past friends. im only 15. i dont know how i feel. sometimes i think im just jealous of them. i have everything i want, but not everything i need i feel empty hollow... please i need s...
A. 11 November 2008: why do you want to forget the past? the past is a part of us. you can't forget it. it'll haunt ti'll you're dead...what you want is an impossibilitie... (read in full...)
This past week I keep having a recurring dream of being raped.
Q. hi, For the past week I've been having a dream where I'm being raped; this guy who seems stalks me (in reality) comes up to me (in my dream) knocks me out and puts me into his car, when I wake up I'm on a beach which is surrounded by cliffs, ...
A. 11 November 2008: i told you. premonitions... but seriously TELL SOMEONE. FAST!!! or find someone who knows him, and find more about him. i once had that knid of thing. i started writing a text, with know purpose. and the things in that paper just keep on happenning, ... (read in full...)
Feelings toward the ex what do I do?
Q. I went out with this guy for 7 months from january 17 of this year through august 12 of this year. I hated him for the excuse of "god told me to" that was his reason to break up with me. Now i went out with his friend and everything was fine until i ...
A. 11 November 2008: start the most active life ever, and never ever see him. works, as you don't have time to think of him. even right now DON'T think of him. go do something which captures all of your attention. works almost every time.... (read in full...)
He is all I have, I'm losing the only thing I have...
Q. i dont know where to start.i love my bf and he used to love me madly.i said i used to couse he changed in a strange way lately.after living 4 months together our relation has to turn in to long distance relation just for 3 months.we passed 2 months ...
A. 11 November 2008: you could beg him to come back you. and sorry for what i'm going to say next. but that' would hurt your pride. don't try to deny it, everybody's got pride. and pride is what makes still be free persons and not slaves of another. besides that i have ... (read in full...)
It drives me crazy that my girlfriend tells her dad everything!
Q. My girlfriend tells her dad everything. I feel like it is because she just doesn't want to disappoint him. (she really has issues with wanting not to disappoint people) I know she is great with what we have done such as, making out and kissing... ...
A. 9 November 2008: Do you trust her? I guess I know the answer. Now, sometimes we grow up not having anyone but THAT one person to talk to and that makes us depend on that person. I guess she told her everything, and that her dad is a very important person to her bla ... (read in full...)
Does the fact I can't stop thinking about my "anal experience" mean I'm gay?
Q. Dear Cupid I am a man in my fifties and I had sex with a few women which I enjoyed a lot but I would love to receive anal. Sex with a male friend of mine we tried it before but it was not a sucess but I can't stop thinking about it does this mea...
A. 9 November 2008: of course not! you are just a man who enjoys experiencing, and who would like to feel how women feel, when the penis enters...better save the details...... (read in full...)
I have two problems and I just neeed to be helped out.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months nearly and I love him with all my heart but I still love the attention I get off other males, like when I go downtown other people flirt with me and I get a kick I haven't cheated on him before and I never ...
A. 9 November 2008: I think that ex really traumatized you. If I was your bf, I would have broken every one of his teeth but anyway, I agree, tell your bf how you feel, and go with the flow, smoothly. Sure your boyfriend wouldn't mind... ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to turn my head or is he serious?
Q. HI! I work with a man, we have a bond no doubt between each other and an attraction. Our flirting, innuendo, and his telling me I'm gorgeus over the nearing year has finally reeled me in. There is an old song, "You made me love you, I didn't w...
A. 9 November 2008: I guess those reasons he gave were valid reasons or he simply didn't want go but he loves you, there's no doubt there. He probably tried to build the wall, and then he saw it was hard and blew it way...... (read in full...)
Is it possible for texts to "get lost"?
Q. Is it possible for texts to get lost because my boyfriend and a male friend of mine claimed to have sent me texts this week yet I haven't got either of them, even though I am receiving texts from other people? My boyfriend and I have been having...
A. 9 November 2008: well, to start, men don't like to be completely controlled. so he could be just enjoying his life. but on the other hand he could be lying, and could be having an affair. the best thing to do is just to talk. not by messages, but actually talking. ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when he says "we've connected!"
Q. What does it mean when I guy says " we've connected?" I was getting on really well with this guy who I ended up giving my number to! We ended up meeting up and he said "I knew when you gave me your number we'd connected".. However, he promised t...
A. 9 November 2008: wait just a little longer. if not, presuming you have his number, give him a call, just to check his still alive. and guys sometime say that kind of thing, just to make girls melt. don't take it to serious, and don't take it too lightly. it can mean ... (read in full...)
Do you think my ex thinks of me as "Plan B"?
Q. When talking on the phone today my ex was going on about his brother in law saying he thinks that my ex should stay single and enjoy himself, my ex is really in love with one of his old relationships and says that he knows what he wants and wishes ...
A. 9 November 2008: well, guys usually have more than one girl under their eye, cause some of them won't pay tem attention. and, my friend, that's what i think it's happenning to him. your just his plan b, and if he sees the other girl is free, say goodbye, to your ... (read in full...)
In love and don't know what to do...
Q. I was on holiday and my mom dad met this couple and they became friends and when we got back off holiday andthey came round for the weekend and they brought there son who is 16 and i immediately fell in love with him. He started flirting with me and ...
A. 9 November 2008: i could say "get over it", but that wouldn't help. at your age, long distance relationships are dificult, specially if you are a girl, since boys, keep falling in love with new girls. well, tell him how you feel, lift that weight off your shoulders... (read in full...)
He has already told me he does not have feelings towards me romantically, and I told him I feel the same. But the truth is that I love him! It's absolutly killing me !
Q. I'm planning on moving out for the first time next summer with my Best Friend. Him and I have been Best Friends for four years now. We are so close and practically inseperable. We used to fool around, but now our relationship is completly ...
A. 9 November 2008: really you are right. telling him now would be like playing with a gun. but who tells you he, like you, doesn't love you? yeah it's like playing the russian roulette, but it's better than being "eaten alive" don't you think?... (read in full...)
Please help I'm losing my mind !
Q. Hi, i hope i dont bore you with this i just need help... All this has happened since I started seeing my girlfriend, and have been seeing her for 10 months now. Basically suspicion started when she'd text her ex girlfriend say kath about kath'...
A. 9 November 2008: start an argue. then slowly calm down. she'll be so upset that she'll tell you everything you want to know. works everytime
best wishes... (read in full...)
Someone Pleeeeease help me, I'm lost and confused on 2 BIG topics. Thanks =]
Q. Hi everyone. I just want to start off by thanking everyone for their time on reading my questions. I've been thinking a lot about what's been going on between my boyfriend and I. My boyfriend and and I have been dating for about 7 months n...
A. 9 November 2008: 1- it can mean is bisexual. or it can say, he had a phase when he wasn't sure what he wanted. and about if he's bisexual? his with you now, isn't he? so it means he chose to be with you.
2-big question. make a list of everything you know he love... (read in full...)
Surely his memory's not that bad? He suggested going to the movies but forgot twice!
Q. What do you make of this? There is a guy I texts and chat too on MSN, althought I have met him but I dont see him much because he goes to bording school in the week. He told one of my friends that he fancied me. I dont realy feel the same way but ...
A. 9 November 2008: buy him a personal organizer. that's all i can say...... (read in full...)
The girl I'm in love with... I'm nervous about the outcome of talking with her!
Q. I am in love with a girl... her name is Jordan and I had her in a class last semester. She always sat really close to me and gave me "the look". I fell head-over-heels for her, but was always apprehensive about talking to her because of a tragic ...
A. 9 November 2008: yes think positive. and think negative...see both sides. make a balance. but what could be that bad. you get a negative. so what happenns? your self-esteem, gets lower, your the reason of a great laugh... nothing worse, is there? no, so try and ... (read in full...)
Do you think he loves me?
Q. Hi everyone there. Well, my bf says he loves me a lot. and I do believe him for he has done a lot for me. But whenever he is tense he dont even talk to me. once I called him (when he already had said not to call him )he talked too rudly. He ne...
A. 9 November 2008: you should tell him to buy something to hit on, and let his bad feeling go off, whenever his tense. seriously. that's what i always tell people to do...... (read in full...)
If it wasn't for her, he'd like me..I know it! What should I do?
Q. I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... ...
A. 9 November 2008: i never wanted to give a bad opinion about your faith. i'm a pessimist by nature, so i like to give people full of happyness, another perceiving. don't misintrerpret my comentary. just trying to calm down all of that excitement. and in fact i do ... (read in full...)
I feel sorry about my ex's troubled relationship, how can I help him?
Q. The guy i've been out with for nearly 10 months called it off with me last month, he has since gone back to one of his ex's(why do they all go back to their ex's) Anyway we've always keept in contact throught the phone, basically the girl he has gone...
A. 9 November 2008: let me get this straight: you have an ex, who got back to his ex, who eventually got back to one of her ex's?! yet, this other girl likes your ex, or so she says, and then they also say she's just after his money. on the other hand, you are asking ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's grown daughter tries to spoil our relationship, should I stay with this man?
Q. My friend of 1 and 1/2 years recently allowed his daughter to put pictures of just him and his deceased wife all around an entire room of his house. The daughter (47 years old, lives with father with her husband, neither have jobs) has done ...
A. 9 November 2008: HOW OLD ARE YOU?! not that have anything against old people relationships, but not knowing your age doesn't help...... (read in full...)
I'm super sad because the relationship is confusing...
Q. I'm just super sad. This guy my brother set me up with and I dated for a little while. He told me sometime he gets into depressed moods... But i never imagined he would be so depressed that he didn't want to talk to anyone. Well, he called about 3 ...
A. 9 November 2008: that's one confusing story. but with all of that story, i didn't quite catch what was the question...... (read in full...)
Should teenagers date before 16? What should they limit to?
Q. So what do you think? Should people date before 16? And if they do, what do you think are the limits in a relationship? :) x...
A. 9 November 2008: before sixteen, i think it's better without sex, but that's a personal choice. there are people, who have had sex with ten years...... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to have sex so it doesn't hurt so much?
Q. I tried having sex with my boyfriend, and I wasn't a virgin before hand, but I'm too tight and he's too big so it hurt me a lot and we stopped. The first time I had sex it didn't hurt at all and the guy wasn't that small but he wasn't huge like my ...
A. 9 November 2008: if your so sure of yourself, who am i to lecture you? if you want to have sex go ahead... but since you say it hurts so much, i think it's better to try, sex without penetration, so it won't hurt that much, don't you think?... (read in full...)
If it wasn't for her, he'd like me..I know it! What should I do?
Q. I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... ...
A. 9 November 2008: it's interesting that you feel angry wth me. you think you have no control over life. yet you do. you've just not perceived that. being angry with my "live with it"...
blowing all with my expression heheh. do you know something? go to this site http... (read in full...)
I Can't concentrate on my studies an am much disturbed.plzzzzzzz help!!!
Q. I am a silly girl of 23. I have tried my level to run a smooth relation with my boyfriend. Well it is a long story. We met by a wrong call. He just dialed my number and asked me to be his friend. At first I refused but then after his continuous ...
A. 9 November 2008: it's very simple. those kind of guys, acomulate stress, over and over, until the littlest of the problems, makes them explode. then when all is over, they are calm peaceful and gentle. beware of those persons, because if they don't have someone else ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to have sex so it doesn't hurt so much?
Q. I tried having sex with my boyfriend, and I wasn't a virgin before hand, but I'm too tight and he's too big so it hurt me a lot and we stopped. The first time I had sex it didn't hurt at all and the guy wasn't that small but he wasn't huge like my ...
A. 9 November 2008: call me old-fashioned, but with 13-15, you shouldn't be so interested in sex. but i would say some lube maybe...... (read in full...)
If it wasn't for her, he'd like me..I know it! What should I do?
Q. I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... ...
A. 9 November 2008: god i'm starting to feel angry with you my friend. you keep saying "if it wasn't..." well it isn't. live with it. you have know power over his life, unless you're a manipulator. stop focusing on the past or paralel presents, and put you're feet on ... (read in full...)
This past week I keep having a recurring dream of being raped.
Q. hi, For the past week I've been having a dream where I'm being raped; this guy who seems stalks me (in reality) comes up to me (in my dream) knocks me out and puts me into his car, when I wake up I'm on a beach which is surrounded by cliffs, ...
A. 8 November 2008: If you believe in premonitions, you better go hiding somewhere far way. or, you could warn the authorities, about that guy who stalks you.... (read in full...)
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